Dates in Atlanta

I’m completely new to BDSM and looking for a woman who can help me to explore BDSM. My goal is to find a monogamous relationship that’s built on trust and love. I’m mostly looking for someone who is dominant or switch, however, I’m open to date someone who is a sub as well. Hoping to be friends with benefits first. I don’t mind if you’re live in another state or country. And it’s OK if you’re much older than me.