Dates in New Orleans

Partnered but ENM and willing to prove it. She will know but not be involved. Looking to share experiences in BDSM. I'm flexible as to what, exactly, so that would depend on our mutual interests. A mental connection with similar values is important. We will go slowly -- your limits will always be respected. And I would like something regular or semi regular. But if you're just visiting New Orleans, I would be open to a casual scene.