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Beschreibung
Assertive yet submissive and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance.
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It’s fire and softness coexisting in one body.
I will absolutely dominate you if you give me nothing to follow. Confident-ish. Intelligent. Independent. I know how to take care of myself, so am never going to blindly hand over trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it.
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But if you are truthful, respectful and grounded in the way that creates safety not insecurity I will submit in the most powerful way. Not out of weakness, but out of trust. Because submission is a choice, not a default.
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I need a man who knows where he’s going. A man with purpose, with presence, with consistency. I don’t respond to control, I respond to clarity. I’m not impressed by power plays or ego. I want connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect.
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I will not follow a man who doesn’t value my mind, my heart, my soul. I will not shrink just to make you feel big. But I will soften, let my guard down, and become the most nurturing, loyal, and gentle woman you’ve ever known... when you make me feel safe enough to show that side.
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I don’t need a man to control me. I need a man who knows how to lead, without losing my myself in the process.
Grenzen
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Pseudo Dom's
Fuckboi's
People who lack awareness or respect re consent
People who lack respect re boundaries/limits
People who are rigid in their thoughts about D/s
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"Do not let sub frenzy take a hold
Do not let sub frenzy take a hold"
May have back fired
The answer is none if you had no power within the relationship to start with.
It's a power they've assumed through privilege afforded by them due to age/gender/social norms Weiterlesen… and, if that's the case, a power they have over everyone.
Bettie.
Back in the 40's Bettie posed for what were considered (at the time) to be risqué photographs.
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Bob.
Bob, and people like him, were the intended audience of said photographs.
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The "Queen of Pinups" popularised bondage, slave training and Weiterlesen… sadomasochism etc. Not only in still photo's but also on film, Bettie Mae Page is often credited as being the most influential person in BDSM history. She was the original OF Model. Bettie helped create the kink community before Bob was even born.
What does Bob contribute to the BDSM community?
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Well, he has these dick pics I guess.
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A century after her birth, we're all benefitting from Bettie Page’s impact on kink.
As for Bob...well he just commented a rose emoji under someone's nude along with the letters "BWC".
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Bettie showed the world that spanking could be fun, that bondage could be exhilarating. Her work contributed towards the sexual revolution of the 60's. She was a pioneer of sexual liberation.
Meanwhile, Bob just posted his 19th dick pic.
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Bettie isn’t alone, shes just one of a long line of women who've also been sex workers that have been the backbone of the sexual revolution and they continue to be. Due to attitudes of people like Bob who just took a photo of his penis against a can of Monster, we still have a long way to go.
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Long before Bettie, in the 17th century, the courtesan Ninon de L’enclos championed gender equality.
Frank just sent a cum tribute.
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In the 60's, sex workers, Sylvia Rivera and Marsha Johnson were a core part of the modern LGBTQ movement.
Learning his lesson re the can of Monster, Bob upped his dick pic game and took a photo of his penis next to a can of Red Bull .
In the 70's/80's the feminist Carol Leigh ("The Scarlot Harlot"
challenged the objectification of people in the sex industry, coining the term 'sex worker' as opposed to 'sex use industry' and sought to decriminalise sex work.Bob just moved his laundry out the way so he can take a selfie by the toilet.
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On another popular Fetish site, sex worker and OF model, Rain De Grey is educating people by hosting kink classes. As are many others
Bob mainly just sends HRU HMU messages to randoms.
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Sex workers have been and continue to advocate for the sexual freedom of all, even if Bob maintains they’re “not real feee-males.” Like Bettie, they’re showing the world what sexual acceptance looks like meaning that we're able to express ourselves more freely than we ever have been. What’s Bob showing the world?
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Like all of us, he’s only here because sex workers like Bettie Page et al challenged peoples views, offering us all the liberation we currently experience.