I am new to the world of fetishes and kinks, but after reading up on a few things I can say that my interests lean more towards sensual bondage or gentle domination rather than harder impact play or pain. I am curious about things like rope bondage and sensory deprivation. I am demisexual, meaning I do not often feel sexually attracted to anyone, and it only happens after I have known them for a fair amount time and have some sort of connection (emotionally or mentally) with them. Anyone interested in me needs to understand that any sort of relationship will likely be slow to develop. Chatting online for a while is a good start, especially if the conversation is engaging

I can be a rather anxious person, especially when dealing with strangers. Even though I do seem to be naturally more inclined to be on the submissive side of things, I would need to know and trust someone a great deal before I would be able to allow myself to submit in any way to them. I have zero interest in "playing" with anyone I don't know very well.

Outside of the kink world, I enjoy video games (mostly fantasy RPGs), movies, sewing, reading (particularly old myths and fairy tales, as well as some comics), theatre, and learning about historic crafts. I love costuming in many forms, especially historic fashions. Absolutely adore all aspects of corsetry.

Desires and Fantasies
I am curious about a lot of different kinks, but especially things like rope bondage and sensory deprivation.
I like men with long hair, though that isn't a strict requirement if we get along well.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone with a romantic side, who is gentle and caring. Someone who is prepared to be patient, supportive and understanding in the event that anxiety gets in the way. Someone who shares interests and can hold a conversation. Preferably close to my own age - no more than a decade older than myself.

I don't like being called pet names (including, but not limited to "sweetie", "babe" or "sexy" especially by people I don't know, and I have no interest in casual hook-ups, one-night-stands, or friends-with-benefits type situations.