Please read this before messaging me.

Sup, I'm (insert new username here (not thought of a new one yet)). Formerly Laurah.
Have been identifying more masculine over the last few years. So I think it's time for a change here.

Metal head. Hippie. Nerd. Poly. Scared of moths.

I've had a abusive relationship a few years back. Someone I met on here, actually. They took advantage of me. So I'm still slow to trust and have a few triggers. Especially when it comes to hospital stuff/weed stuff. I'm not gonna go into it further. But, basically, I'm not very 420 friendly..

I have multiple partners. I'm polyamorous.
Jeneralwhore (is their current username on here) has become my primary relationship. I live with them.
My other partner is a non-sexual, more romantic relationship. They live in London.
If you don't know what polyamory or ethical non-monogamy are, then do some research. If you're not comfortable with it, then move along. So many people have problems with communication with one partner, let alone multiple. If you have communication issues, I highly recommend you work on them.

I'm looking for female partners, between 25 to 50, to share with my primary, for now. Potentially couples too. Cucking, partner sharing, casual swinging.
Will be looking for solo-non-mono partners further along the line.

One day, after I've gone back and done my masters degree.. After being a art teacher for a bit.. I want to start building communes. Self sustainability. Community. Helping eachother. Big poly groups. The more love in the world the better. Everyone should get along. Fuck the capitalist bastards. Eat the rich. Fuck those greedy dragons sitting on their piles of gold. There is enough resources on this planet for EVERY human to be comfortable and happy.

As for kink and fetishes, these are the sorta things I like/want to try/do more of.
I'd identify as a switch. Leaning more towards sub. And more of a hands-off dominant. Using toys/equipment.

Satin/silk. The way it shines, glides, rubs together. The way it looks draped over a woman. Damn. If i had to pick one fetish to have for the rest of my life, it would be that. Its the quickest way to get me off!
I do like other materials. I'm a very sensual person. Love other soft/shiny textures. Latex, pvc, velvet, mesh, plastic, etc.
Clothes are a big part of my sexuality.
Having someone feminine dressed in these materials gets me going. Submissive or dominant.

I'm moving away from the non-binary label. But I still enjoy the humiliation of forced feminization. Sissy dresses and makeup. Tight corsets. Heels (chunky ones). Stockings. Gloves.
Bondage in these clothes is especially sexy.

Bondage wise, I enjoy being restricted and restrained. I need this more in future so I can get over my sensitivity issues with my penis. So I can't bat hands/mouths/toys away. I need my limit pushed past my feelings of overwhelming sensations.

Fantasies I have include, but are not limited to;

• Being put in a box. Gagged, plugged, penis stimulation. Complete sensory isolation. Used as furniture. Able to still hear what else is going on in the bdsm room.
• Being dressed up all sissy, chastity, butt plugs. Teased tortured. Being made to stand there on display until I wet myself. This is the ONLY piss play I'd be interested in. Oh the embarrassment. But the relief, too.
• Being locked in chastity. Only for a week or so at a time. While a partner teases me/pegs me/fucks other people infront of me.
• To be wrapped up in a giant flower. Soft sensory deprivation.
• Sat on a giant sofa shaped like lips. Then be eaten by it, swallowed into a satin lined mouth.
• Captured by a giant spider. Google drider/arachne. Have them wrap me in their silk and drain my protein. Maybe even lay eggs in me. Ovipositor?
• Being used as living artwork in a suspended vac bed/cube.
• General gimpery/dehumanised play.
• Forcing orgasms out of me and others is fun.
• Enjoy cunnilingus. When her thighs clamp around my head. When my beard is soaked. When my tongue is hurting. When I can't breathe. But her pleasure is more important! Only breath play I'm really into..
• Really wanna try sounding.
• Wanna try a fucking machine. Used on me and watching someone else get mercilessly pounded.
• I would enjoy having/or sharing my own gimp/sex slave. Small amounts of puppy play, just ears and tail plugs. No furries, please. Long fox tail plugs are cute.
• Have a sub/partner be in predicament bondage while I sit and watch or busy myself around the house. Have the submissive hanging from the ceiling. Anal hooks, nipple clamps, spider gags, nose clips. Vibrators strapped to their genitals.
  That's what I can think of at the moment.

Stuff I don't like.

• I'm not a masochist. I can enjoy being restricted/uncomfortable situations. But I don't deal with pain very well.
• I find brats irritating. A little bit of disobedience is tolerable. But, actively and on the regular being bratty can be annoying.
• I can't stand glitter or sequins. A sensory ick. For that matter, tacky/cheap clothes are ick too. Like, cheap fancy dress/cosplay stuff actively turns me off..
• Definitely not into sploshing. No kink/sex with food. But I would maybe try slime/gunge.
• Adult baby stuff, ddlg stuff. If you're into this, good for you. So long as it's all consensual. But I think regression is a psychological coping mechanism. Go see your therapist. And if you like to have sexual relations with someone in "little space", also go see a therapist. Because that's creepy.
  This is my personal subjective opinion.
• Rope play on it's own bores me.
• Financial domination is only for the rich pay pigs. Not the regular folk. If you're here looking for wallets to drain instead of getting a real job, then go away. If someone was interested in your O.F. page, they would have found you already. Stop spamming dating sites with your advertisements.
  Only financial domination should be with professional dominants. People who put the work in, have their own dungeons and take all limits/equipment maintenance seriously.

• Otherwise. No scat/blood/vomit/permanent bodily harm.
  
  Other than all that..
  I'm apparently quite friendly.
  Non confrontational.
  Feel free to message me if you wanna chat.
  Feel free to check out my partner and our couples profile, AJMackie.
  You'll occasionally find me in the lobby. I usually just say "butts" or post a dumb gif and then leave. I don't stay long.. because I've been on this site for a long time and have seen/been part of most discussions that occur in the lobby/forums. I get bored of the wall of "hi's and bye's". I get bored of all the petty drama. People should get along, follow the rules and respect one another.