What do i want... good people friends play, what do i not want, complete full time dynamics, relationships in traditional terms. i currently do not have the energy for a full time dom/sub dynamic, though i am keen to help those i can. EVERYTHING IS FLEXIBLE, BUT IM VERY not into AGE REGRESSION

I am into my photography, and have earned from it in the past, I am looking to start up again and I already work with some models, should you have a request, or need support, also looking for photography buddies, exploration and work.

Separate to this, my kinky self.

I am not into any real harm, abuse or misuse. we are all human, not just meat. everything legal and safe, and within agreed boundaries

I we get talking, i will offer care. that's just being decent. if your here to have every cock you can get stuffed into you, I'm not interested, that form of self abuse, and its a hole that never gets filled.

I am my own worst enemy, not yours
an evolving dominant kinkster, with old school daddy /care side (not regression). i love the mentoring and guiding side of BDSM and enabling safe space, and safe play and experiences.


If you have a partner make sure you have permission to talk to me.

I am Old school.

dad bod. But with a little extra, with 20+ years in kink
I am here like everyone for a variety of reasons, not just bdsm

Clean and tested. I only play with women, but happy to social with couples.


An evolving and exploring kinkster with a dominant personality.

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