I'm a 40 something woman who identifies as submissive and masochist.

I am looking for new friends and casual dating and possibly new play partners, but with everyone I play with I am looking for a respectful emotional connection. I'm not looking to be owned or for a Master, so please don't ask.

I enjoy dancing, going to the cinema, karaoke, walking, writing and bowling, although I am terrible at it.

Desires and Fantasies
As I say, I identify as submissive and a masochist. I came to BDSM later in life but have been active on the scene for nearly 4 years now.

I prefer to talk about my kinks and fetishes in more detail when I know someone a little better. Once there's a connection there are few things I enjoy talking about more, but until then I'm looking for somebody who's interested in me as a whole person and not just my kinks.