I've been doing it unknowingly all my life but it's been the past five years I've been exploring it and finding my own way in the mine field of bdsm. I'm a personal trainer and commanding people to do as I wish has become a finely tuned and honed skill which involves psychology as much as physical presence. I'm also a sapiophile and find intelligence attractive and to dominate some one who is very much in control of there vanilla world is a awesome power to behold. I'm a pleaser too it's as much about my willingness to pleasure over and above my own physical experience that I enjoy. Taking someone to the edge and having the power and control to decide when I'm ready to take them so far over the edge there always going to be mine ! There are Doms and there are Doms in the natural kind there is nothing forced or contrived about my style but by it's very much depends on the interaction between the master and his sub. Effort is rewarded with effort! And my compassionate side is unleashed to those who deserve my affection. X