I don't really know why I'm here. I'm married to a fairly vanilla woman. I say fairly vanilla, in that I we have dabbled in play in the past, however she would have me believing my kinks made me perverted. Since getting married and starting a family there doesn't seem to be any us time.

About a year ago I started stealth submission. I admit, when compared to a femdom relationship with open communication, its considerably unfulfilling. However, I take what I can get. My wife has always lacked confidence, however she has started becoming more assertive as I have become more reserved.

So why am I here? I guess to be amongst like-minded people who can help me ensure I believe I am not perverted.