I’ve been actively involved in the lifestyle for about six years, to me it revolves around control, as well as pleasure/pain of course

I have built St. Andrew’s Cross and pillory but at the moment don’t have the space to build or use them here.

I’m currently living in Norfolk, but hoping eventually to move to the south west.

I have a spiritual side.

I would like someone to share this journey through life with...ideally all of the journey...but failing that...parts of it...

I’ve been on here most of the past six years, but have decided to have a fresh start.

I saw this and it says exactly what I’m looking for.....

Submission isn’t about sex.

Submission is about being there for him, how he needs you to be.

Submission is about serving his needs, while finding your peace in doing so.

Submission is about respect.

Submission is about acceptance.

Submission is allowing him to release with you.

Submission is being a comfort and haven for him.

Submission is proving yourself.

Submission is not pouting when he tells he no.

Submission is thinking of him, before yourself.

Submission is listening.

Submission is vulnerable honesty.

Submission is your way of telling him he is beyond special to you. That he has earned the right to own you.

Submission is the outward expression of your belief in him.

Submission is not easy.

Submission is love.