I'm looking for advice on introducing bdsm to my partner. I don't want to overwhelm him or do it in a manipulative way. I am submissive and I would like him to be more dominant. I am not experienced, but I have greatly enjoyed the few things I have tried. I have read a decent amount about bdsm, and have wanted to try more for a few years now. Unfortunately my partner only knows about the stigmas around bdsm and I am unsure how to tell him my desires without freaking him out. I am NOT looking to hook up with anyone or anything like that. I would like just advice and maybe some friends.