Alpha sub/Switch, sapiosexual, complex and adventurous. Polyamorous. Recently out of a VERY long term relationship that was vanilla until I wasn't. Exploring.

I have play partners I love and am not actively looking for new ones. When I do play, I look for good energy, subtle intelligence, imagination, creativity, and depth as well as mad skills, playfulness and a lively sense of humor. Zero interest in purely online/virtual connection, long distance, swinging, hookups, or being your unicorn. I'm going to repeat that part because I've gotten a string of contacts recently asking for one or more of those: ZERO INTEREST IN HOOKUPS.

If you think we are of like minds and want to connect after you take all of that into account, I'll consider it. Great communication and complete sentences are non-optional. If you message or meet me and those are lacking, or it's obvious you didn't take the time to read this far, I will not waste my time or yours responding.

I am the founder of the Erotic Blueprint™ Kinkster Club and a Certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach. No, that does not mean I want to teach you to be my lover. I never have sex with clients. But I would be happy to work with you to bring more intimacy, pleasure, connection, and orgasms into your life, and to become masterful in the areas of eroticism that work for you (not just Kink!). PM me if you would genuinely like to know more about coaching.

Desires and Fantasies
I love Sub space! ...prefer Bottoming (to men or women) but like to Switch with women, especially with rope. Energetic connection and power exchange hold all the depth and magic for me; have to start there and then add kink. I love shibari and kinbaku, a wide variety of sensual, sensation, and impact play, leather, and bondage. Into giving and receiving intense sensation (pain).

Joyful voyeur and exhibitionist. Witnessing and being witnessed in eroticism with conscious partners/groups = Good. Many more kinks & interests TBD. I require body-based connection and to go deep in surrender. That requires trust, which requires (on all sides) time, intent, vulnerability, integrity, and a bunch of other stuff that just has to be felt out in person. Then again, I love adventure and I follow the energy, which means sometimes I'll leap into doing something outrageous in the moment if it feels right and the container is there.