Hi Im a regular 27 year old guy who is in good shape. Im not going to lie I'm not an extreme bdsm master. I do think it is important for the slavesub to enjoy whats being done to her to an extent. Albeit I am in charge. At the end of the day hurting or humiliating anybody is against the law so they have to at least enjoy it and definitely allow it. As I say Im used to taking control in the bedroom and in daily life (where I run my own business). I just havent gone the whole hog with whips and chains etc. Im interested to learn what different women enjoy men to do to them and possibly put it into practice in a safe environment. I am very much into the basic aspects but also keen to have a taste of more bdsm. will add to this shortly.