I have unusually small blue eyes, and wear glasses.

As of 09/18/2025 I now have pierced ears with small studs. Seven weeks later, 11/06/2025, I now have pierced nipples as well. My left nipple was inverted (it is the one that sort of has a dimple on it), so was pierced first, and pierced deeper also.

I like having pedicures and manicures, and as of November 15, 2025, I actually decided to go with colored fingernails that match my toenails. Prior to that date (my birthday, actually), I was too concerned what others may think, so I only was getting clear coat on my fingernails. Now, I figure if people cannot handle my fingernails being colored (#628 red) that is their problem, not mine. I get them updated periodically, the most recent of which was 01/23/2026. I like them red, and have not experimented with other colors.

I'm an open minded married man with kinks, fantasies and curiosities that I'd like to explore. I always considered myself straight, but am currently Bi-curious.

I am a real, honest, and sincere person, and pretty much an open book (particularly to my wife). I'm not a cheat or sneak, so I will tell her as much or as little as she wants to know.

I have always had an interest in bondage, for which I have handcuffs (real) and "one size fits most" leg cuffs that never fit me. I now also have "oversized" leg irons, which just arrived on June 18, 2025. I've only experienced handcuffs solo to date. Additionally, in August, 2025, I just purchased lockable wrist and ankle stocks, and subsequently I purchased a gag as well, though it is still safe within its box, and has not seen the light of day.

I find transgender women of particular interest, but I'm not sure if this is purely fetish based, or goes deeper. Currently I chat with two, and one who has transitioned entirely, and is surgically female. She was afraid to tell me at first out of concern of rejection, but I am not shocked or horrified or anything by it, and am very open minded. 01/31/2026: In order to try to determine my true feelings on the subject, I am currently reading a book "EVERYTHING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT TRANS"
"(BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK)" by Brynn Tannehill.

I've always had a fantasy to be pegged

I have some other kinks as well, but really, despite my age, I don't have a lot (or any) experience in kink. I took an online kink test, prior to ever finding this site, but I'm not sure how honest I was with myself and it. It said I was a switch I think, but I always assumed submissive. As of January 28, 2026, I retook the test, but I'm not sure I got the result I expected. I don't think it was the same test, though (?). Rule of thumb, ask I guess. I've got curiosity about most things, and I'm open minded.

I have never had more than a one-on-one experience.

On April 14, 2025, I told my wife about all my kinks, fantasies, desires, and curiosities. She is supportive, and we are exploring some things. I was "suppressed" for a long time, and was shy, quiet and reserved also, but am trying to break out of my shell, and to "reinvent" myself.

Because I expressed the pegging interest, someone had suggested I invest in a plug, which I did. I've only worn it a few times thus far, but it does create very interesting sensations, indeed. I also invested in a slow flow enema bulb with one way valve at the same time, so shit doesn't happen lol

Since April 18, 2005, to date, I have lost over 35 pounds, and 4" off my waist. I was walking after work (I worked overnights), In a local park, 2 laps (5.4km or 3.35mi), which takes approximately an hour. Walking, eating better, and eating less have got me where I'm at now. I'm lower in weight right now than I have been in over 20 years. When it was fall, I'm still walked outdoors, and for a while, the ground had not been icy or impassible. Now that winter has set in, and its a heavier winter than we have had in a while, I walk indoors as an alternative. The indoor track is only 183m or 600'4" so I was doing 35 laps because it does not have hills. That would be 6.4km or 3.98mi. Then I think I plateaued because the weight stagnated for a while, so I upped it to 45 laps, which is 8.2km or 5.098 miles. Then most recently I upped it again to 50 laps which is 9.15 km or 5.686 miles, and as of 01/26/2026 I upped it again to 55 laps, which is just over 10km, or a little over 6 miles. I'll probably leave it at that, as I don't want to overdo things.

I went on holidays this summer to our provincial capital, Edmonton, where I continued walking daily, either at lake Beaumaris or elsewhere. However, at the conclusion of my holidays, I had large blisters on the soles of both feet. Apparently I may have overdone it a bit.

However, despite the blisters, I tried to continue walking anyways. Bad idea. My left foot bled through my sock and into my shoe. After that, I had no choice but to slow down, and let it heal some. So things I tried in the meantime:

• walking indoors at the fitness center. The track is 183m (600'4" ) so, I was doing 35 laps of the track, for 6405m (6.4km or 3.98 miles). Unlike the park, there are no hills involved, so instead of walking 5.4km in the park, 6.4km at the track seemed similar.
• walking the lazy river at the fitness center. The lazy river is a fairly large circular pool that is about 1.02m (3'4" deep) and has a current to it. Unfortunately, the lazy river has been in an extended repair operation of late, and is slated to open prior to the end of January 2026 - we shall see.

• downtime. My feet simply needed to heal, plain and simple.
  
  so, I have been maintaining, but not losing as rapidly as I was. The last week or so of August, 2025, there had been heat advisories here, so it had been quite hot. So in excess of 30c up to 33/34 (86 to 91+ F). My shifts since returning from holidays have changed back to what they were prior to being on the renovation crew, so I commence work at 06:00 and work until (varies depending on day) 12:30 or 13:30. So, when I walked after work, it was in mid afternoon, when it was the warmest.
  
  I wore a bucket hat I bought on vacation (as I had forgotten to bring my Tilly) so that my head did not burn, and had a water bottle in my right pant pocket to stay hydrated.
  
  There is a bit more information in my "confessions".

no crap, or vomit. I'm not sure aside from that. If in doubt, ask