FEEL FREE TO ASK QUESTIONS
(I'm approachable and pretty much an open book)

~~ Who I am ~~
I'm an open minded man looking to explore. I consider myself experimental, and am currently Bicurious.

I am an honest, and sincere person, and pretty much an open book (particularly to my wife).

I'm not a cheat or sneak, so I tell her as much or as little as she wants to know. I do not keep things from her.

On April 14, 2025, I told my wife about all my kinks, fantasies, desires, and curiosities. She is supportive, and knows I am looking to explore.

I have ADHD and am told I may have some autistic characteristics, though I do not recall ever having been tested for autism.

~~ Weight loss and Exercise ~~
Since April 18, 2005, to date, I have lost considerable weight, and at least 4" off my waist. This was achieved by tons of walking, which I continue to do to this day. Walking in a local park, 2 laps (5.4km or 3.35mi), which takes approximately an hour, initially. Through Walking, eating better, and eating less have got me where I'm at now. I'm lower in weight right now than I have been in over 20 years. In fall, I still walked outdoors for a while, as the ground had not been icy or impassible.

When winter set in, I had to shift indoors for a time, where I walked in progressive increments starting at 35 laps, progressing over time to 55 laps. Each lap being 183m or 600'4". So at 55 laps, 10km or a little over 6 miles.

Now spring has sprung and things have melted again, so walking outdoors as before, only now I've added an extra loop, for 8.1 km or 5.033 miles.

I also enjoy walking the lazy river at the fitness center. The lazy river is a fairly large circular pool that is about 1.02m (3'4" deep) and has a current to it.

When I went on holidays last summer to our provincial capital, Edmonton, I continued walking daily, either at lake Beaumaris or elsewhere. However, at the conclusion of my holidays, I had large blisters on the soles of both feet. Apparently I may have overdone it a bit. Despite the blisters, I tried to continue walking anyways. Bad idea. My left foot bled through my sock and into my shoe. After that, I had no choice but to slow down, and let it heal some.

~~ Piercings ~~

• 09/18/2025 - pierced ears with small studs, initially purple, now red.

• 11/06/2025 - pierced nipples. My left nipple was inverted (it is the one that sort of has a dimple on it), so was pierced first, and pierced deeper
  
  (See photos if this piques your interest)
  
  ~~ Pampering ~~
  I like having pedicures and manicures, and as of my birthday November 15, 2025, I actually decided to go with colored fingernails that match my toenails. Prior to that date, I was too concerned what others may think, so I only was getting clear coat on my fingernails. Now, I figure if people cannot handle my fingernails being colored (#628 red) that is their problem, not mine. I get them updated periodically, the most recent of which was 03/27/2026. I like them red, and have not experimented with other colors. My feet are currently in need of attention once sandal season arrives.
  
  ~~ What am I into? ~~
  I'm experimental and have curiosity about a great many things. There is little I would not try.
  
  I have always had an interest in receiving bondage, for which I have real handcuffs, leg cuffs, and now leg irons. The leg cuffs ("one size fits most", and "kick proof" have never to this day fit me. As of 06/18/2025, I received my leg irons, which fit me well. I've only experienced cuffs solo to date. Additionally, in August, 2025, I just purchased lockable wrist and ankle stocks, and subsequently purchased a gag as well, though it is still safe within its box, and has yet to see the light of day.
  
  I've always had a fantasy to be pegged, or to receive anal. I'm open to giving as well.
  
  I have some other kinks as well.
  
  I have never had more than a one-on-one experience, but am interested.
  
  ~~ Fetish? or Genuine Interest? ~~
  I find transgender women of particular interest, but I'm not sure if this is purely fetish based, or goes deeper. I would like to think it is a genuine interest, personally. Currently I chat with three, and one who has transitioned entirely, and is surgically female. She was afraid to tell me at first out of concern of rejection, but I am not shocked or horrified or anything by it, and am very open minded. 01/31/2026: In order to try to determine my true feelings on the subject, I am currently reading a book "EVERYTHING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT TRANS"
  "(BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK)" by Brynn Tannehill.
  
  Initially I borrowed it from the public library, but have now bought my own copy, as it is a topic that interests me greatly.
  
  ~~ The test ~~
  The online kink test, I'm not sure how honest I was with myself and it the first time, it said I was a switch. January 28, 2026, I retook the test, and I'm not sure I got the result I expected, so rule of thumb, ASK. I've got curiosity about most things, am very open minded, and experimental.
  
  ~~ Confessions ~~
  There is a bit more information in my "confessions".

no crap, or vomit. I'm not sure aside from that. If in doubt, ask