Dominant for as long as I can remember and generally attracted to intelligent, confident women who only want to submit to someone willing to put the work in.

One night stands don’t excite me as much as they used to….I’m also not looking for 24/7. I want someone with a good balance of kink and communication. Someone whose company I enjoy beyond just BDSM. It can get pretty boring very fast if all there is in the locker is BDSM / sex chat. I like a Master / slave dynamic but I like a time out as well so we can converse like humans.

I like the majority of things relating to D/s dynamics (including of course the after care) I’m a firm believer that being Dominant does not exclude someone from having manners or acting like a gentleman. I work on the premise that you can still be a good guy, caring, strict, firm and dominant at the same time. If you can’t pull that off and find a balance then you have no business being put into any sort of position of power or control.

I’m not into age play, I’m not into blood or scat or anything that might actually harm someone.

I love buying things for the person I’m with, it gives me a kick to buy toys, restraints, clothes, lingerie etc - I also love booking nice weekends away in big old hotels or houses so the settings alter from just being ‘my place’ or ‘your place’. I love travel, long haul, short haul, road trips, staycations, all of them. Life’s too short to be sedentary and the big outdoors is where I’m happiest, so when I’ve got my normal vanilla hat on you’ll find me outdoors, walking, hiking, hanging out with friends down the pub or around a dinner table. Sometimes in the garage tinkering on one of my cars or carrying out some sort of DIY.

In the evenings when the sun is out I’m usually on my boat, cruising along the Thames drinking a glass of something cold. I own and manage my own business so I find down time (and the solitude of the river) to be very valuable indeed.

I way prefer to meet for a drink than having long text exchanges that might fizzle out…..and if there’s anything else you would like to know then feel free to ask.