I am a switch who has long been interested in exploring the many facets of the world of fetishes and would like to find a person who is interested in helping me to do so. I am perfectly okay with someone who is just starting their own fetish journey (we can explore together) or someone who is experienced and who would take pleasure in expanding my horizons and stretching my limits.

I only have a few hard limits and those are largely informed by my desire to make sure that my partner is having as much fun as I am. That said, here are the things that I am NOT interested in:

Lack of Consent: Consent is extremely important to me and I have no interest in even role playing a scenario where a person is too young, too ***, or too damaged to willingly consent to the activities we are engaging in. Pre-established consent for role playing would be fine for situations that toe this line.

Cruelty and Mean Spirited Play: I’m all for playing a little rough but I want to be wanted/appreciated and will give this in return. I do not appreciate mistreatment so intense and deliberate *** (CBT, Stomping, Kicking), ***, or outright viciousness are absolute turn-offs for me.

//Vomit: Pretty self explanatory

Permanent Marks/Potential Harm: Anything that might inflict lasting damage including needles, knives, fire, breath-play etc. I’d rather our fun didn’t result in the use of a first aid kit or a trip to the hospital.

Apart from this, I am eager to explore and the more into something my partner is, the more turned-on I will get by it.