Dates in Runnemede

It appears most don't understand how difficult this app makes it to start and hold a conversation as someone not subscribed... especially as a single male even with 20 years experience. Problem is how many apps or sites are we subscribed to and how do we choose which one works for us? For me I think I counted 6 last time I checked lol. How many do you have? By the way I always respond to every message I get.