(This event is posted on multiple channels, I always have a full-house with around 15 participants)

Announcing this year's 3rd kinky house party, that aims to take the bar a notch higher than the 1st...

The Mindspace #5

Are you someone with a kinky mind, who also likes board games? Do you miss a safe space to play all kinds of board games, without having to look over your shoulder, or worry about the noises or the actions you make? Have you ever wished to do naughty things with friends, but also wanted some challenges and rules to make it exciting? A place where you can connect with like minded people, forget the taboos and express your true self without *** or judgement?

If yes, then this is the space for you and your soul. Your very own Mindspace!

Let's dress up to express, play games that might involve racy thoughts, concepts, suggestions, props or just drinks. Let the vibes decide if, when and who indulges in some play within the group dynamic.

Since not everyone knows everyone present, we will start with some games to set the right vibe. Later on, games could lead to suggestions like a sensual dance, rope bondage, D/s play, Roleplays, Impact plays, exercising fetishes etc., with the floor open to escalate further.

My main criteria for selecting is based in having a good mix of people, who either have been to my events previously and fit into my dynamic, or your profile should reflect that you are open-minded, tolerant, bring good vibes, having international exposure and not just interested in sex.

How do I plan to create a fun yet safe-space:

• Everyone has the power to say "Please leave, chill out, come back later".
• Anyone who is told this must leave. We will practice saying this a few times at the start of the night
• I encourage taking care of each other, so you can say this on behalf of someone else
• The space is LGBTQIA+ friendly, no room for any phobias; respect, tolerance and acceptance is the key
• No peer pressure... Nothing would be mandatory or expected.
• Only a yes means yes, aka explicit mutual-consent for everyone to see
• Keep focus on playing the games and having fun

• If you find an uncontrollable urge to express opinions, you are welcome to join my International Munch (every last Friday of the month), where discussions are not only tolerated, but also encouraged
  If you have read this, message me for a personal passphrase which we will ask you on arrival
  

  The plan:

• We meet at 6pm, and have time to dress-up, settle-down, cook-n-eat and cozy-in
• After a short round of introductions, sharing limits and expectations, we start playing games from 7:30pm
• You can come late or leave early, just let us know
• Somewhere around 11pm, we change the ambience, take the game-level up a notch with some kinky games and let the group vibe decide if and to what level we escalate things
• Dress up as kinky as you like. Express yourself in colors or keep it black, or skip it completely. Just no boring street wear. And don't forget to wear a coat when you arrive, I don't want to scare the neighbors
• Bring play things and toys if you like. It would be fun to watch willing participants engage in some ecstatic play

• Most important though is to bring good vibes and a jest to make genuine connections will fellow Mindspace peeps
  

  House rules:

• My place is near UKE in Lokstedt/Eppendorf and I can host up to 15 people
• Bring finger food/ snacks and drinks for yourself and others if you'd like to share.
• I always have some beers and wine and some chips to go along, and usually like to cook some Indian delicacy on the side
• The kitchen is free to use, and right next to the playing area, so you won't miss any action

• Even if people in my apartment building are very tolerante (and incidentally non-confirming themselves), we should keep the overall noise levels in check (below 62 dB)
  
  If you wish to participate RSVP here with a short introduction via PM. Use the words "how many girls" creatively in your first sentence without being creepy, so that I know that you have read up to here. I will confirm your participation and share my address.
  
  Questions and concerns can be addressed to me via PM.
  
  -Sandy (@dad_and_alive)