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A while back, Fet.com threw a Dark Horse my way! His messages were ladened with humour, so funny that I was struggling to see what lay beneath but curiosity got the better of me.
A nervous coffee together on a cold bench. So much laughter & talking that hours flew by & even then, talk of play was nervously approached so I was still unaware of what lay beneath this jovial beauty.
OH MY WORD….what lay beneath was the darkest of Dark Horses! Someone who not only allowed me to be my wild self with no judgement but someone who made me want to allow them to take care of my aftercare! Someone who proved that there was someone who could Dominate on my level.
Our beautiful journey has continued since. He is not only my Dom but also my life partner, my soul mate, the missing piece of me & my best friend & I ask that you be respectful of that.

I am a very witty (hilarious & sarcastic), honest (blunt), quirky (weird), strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive.
After being a Domme since my teenage years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub when I was 40, I know my role very clearly.
I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience.

Looking to chat to, learn & share information with experienced Dom/mes, subs (& Wolves in grandmas clothing) within & outside the BDSM world.
I’ve made some amazing friendships & strong connections on here & that’s what’s important to me. I’m happy to continue making friendships & connections as I skip quirkily along this yellow-twisted-sadistic-brick-road.
I am Not looking for any other partners, anything ‘on the side’, any other Dom’s or friendships that suggest ‘let see where this goes’.

I’m a huge believer in ‘if you see something beautiful, say so’ so if I like your pics or comment on them please take it as a compliment, not as a come-on.

I am a BDSM owned sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother. I will speak to you with respect & manners but also expect the same in return so if your conversation does not start with a polite ‘hello etc’ & jumps straight into some kind of kink led sentence, please don’t expect a reply.
Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.