I am a 41 year old woman who is very curious about BDSM primarily with dominance and submission. I am very new to the community as I am married to a man who has zero interest in the community. I am looking to learn more about what it is that turns me on and to find myself.

Desires and Fantasies
I desire a man who knows what he wants and will make me bend to his will. I have not explored so I don't really know what I do or do not like however I can tell you that the idea of bondage and spankings make me wet.