I have been active in the scene for about 10 years now, but I have been interested and aware for a lot longer. I am not on this site looking for anything in particular, I am learning about myself, the lifestyle and enjoying meeting new people.

I am a qualified therapeutic counsellor, the dream is to become a psychosexual therapist, with a specialism in BDSM, fetishes and kink relationships. I love discussing sex in multiple capacities, I find it fascinating, I’m open minded even when something isn’t for me.

Having said this, I'm not here to bombard people with psycho-babble-bullshit..

I have always described myself as submissive but I also believe there are many other categories I fall into, I can’t be confined to just one. I have had some crazy and amazing experiences because I’ve been open to trying a variety of fetishes. I have partaken in more than I ever expected to and continue to be open to new things..

Believer in non-monogamy.

Time is essential for a more erotic and pleasurable experience.

Control of the body should always start with infiltrating the mind.

Desires and Fantasies
Can vary and are being fulfilled at present.