Dates in Portsmouth

My name is Mel. I'm a 22F sub from England, Down South. I'm looking for a dom for a possible long term, monogamous dynamic. I can be really shy at first so bare with me. I'm also pretty self conscious so I don't like taking pics or videos. Idm sending a selfie though.

A little bit about me:

I'm 5'5, chubby, alt, blue-eyed, white/pale with piercings and tattoos and dyed hair (black). I'm into writing, gaming and music. I also collect plushies and dolls and, I like to watch ghost videos.

A little bit about sub me:

I have about 3+ years of online experience but only little irl experience as a sub. I've had many doms and I've even dominated in the past, not very much and it isn't for me. I'm not too sure what type of sub I am as I'm still figuring that out. However, I'm into rough stuff and I like to feel humiliated and used. I love sexting and I love phone sex too. I have a list of my kinks, limits and boundaries to send for when appropriate.
What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a dom that wants a long term, monogamous dynamic, as well as a connection. I can't really submit if there isn't a connection. Distance isn't a problem for me as I'm only really looking for an online dynamic. However, I don't mind an irl dynamic. I'm only looking for a dom that's aged 22-27, please no one under or over.