Dates in Northampton

I am an older guy. I am 77 and alone, but with cravings to have bdsm meetings with women. I'm suggesting "sleep-overs" at each other's homes. I would be willing to be stripped and bound, spread-eagled on the bed and be totally owned. I desire to be cbt punished. I've got a very high threshold , don't hold back : hit them!! Please live close to me (Northampton) so that it's practical to meet at short notice.