BDSM in Birmingham

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It's a bi-monthly gathering of newbie and experienced, riggers and bunnies, tops and bottoms, and the just plain curious among you. Come along and share your love and knowledge of rope be it Shibari, kinbaku, suspension,damsel in distress, predicament bondage, partials, western, or fusion. Hemp, synth, nylon, poly, cotton, jute or coconut and everything else in between. Whatever your bondage style, you're sure to find someone who shares your passion. You can Top, bottom, tie, chat, share, teach, learn, have a brew (and sometimes we have cake!), and most importantly have a whole lot of fun. Your evening will be hosted by experienced Tops and bottoms who live and love rope! We're there to try to ensure YOU get the most out of YOUR evening. We offer meet n greets, safety info, and our endless enthusiasm for all things ropey.

Is there something that you have always wanted to try but did not have enough willing helpers to make it happen? Do you have a partner with a fantasy you would love to help them fulfil, but have never been able to get those 6 female subs and a wet cabbage together in the same place? Do you just love helping others realise their dreams? If you answered Yes to any of the above, Centre of Attention is for you.

Spanks-a-lot is run every 3 months in Purgatory at Xtasia. For spanking enthusiasts, we welcome in Spankers and Spankee's. With or without a play partner, you're welcome to attend. If without we'll try hard to hook you up with someone. Flirts bar for the social side of things, evening meals and drinkies, and Purgatory for the play side. Running from 8pm to 2am. Each event we have a theme, which gives those who wish a change to dress in an appropriate style. Past examples include Schoolroom, Secretary and Boss, 1950s, 1960s Summer of love, Priests, Monks and Nuns and Sci-Fi. The theme often influences the music played too and some of the games. Dressing to theme is completely optional, but many find it gives a nice inclusive feeling and a good way to start conversations with strangers.

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females, (or those that like to take on this role) can relax in a friendly atmosphere, socialising with likeminded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 2pm until 8pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is regarded as something special and the perfect place for Dominant Females and their submissives to gather, socialise and play.

Is there something that you have always wanted to try but did not have enough willing helpers to make it happen? Do you have a partner with a fantasy you would love to help them fulfil, but have never been able to get those 6 female subs and a wet cabbage together in the same place? Do you just love helping others realise their dreams? If you answered Yes to any of the above, Centre of Attention is for you.

Spanks-a-lot is run every 3 months in Purgatory at Xtasia. For spanking enthusiasts, we welcome in Spankers and Spankee's. With or without a play partner, you're welcome to attend. If without we'll try hard to hook you up with someone. Flirts bar for the social side of things, evening meals and drinkies, and Purgatory for the play side. Running from 8pm to 2am. Each event we have a theme, which gives those who wish a change to dress in an appropriate style. Past examples include Schoolroom, Secretary and Boss, 1950s, 1960s Summer of love, Priests, Monks and Nuns and Sci-Fi. The theme often influences the music played too and some of the games. Dressing to theme is completely optional, but many find it gives a nice inclusive feeling and a good way to start conversations with strangers.

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females, (or those that like to take on this role) can relax in a friendly atmosphere, socialising with likeminded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 2pm until 8pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is regarded as something special and the perfect place for Dominant Females and their submissives to gather, socialise and play.

A mainstream BDSM party suited to both experienced kinksters and "newbies" of all persuasions. The focus is on BDSM Play and a culture of best practice, as well as providing a short (newbie) intro talk on a particular topic at each event. The aim is one of encouraging play using good equipment in a safety-minded environment, alongside relaxed social areas for conversation and making friends.

A mainstream BDSM party suited to both experienced kinksters and "newbies" of all persuasions. The focus is on BDSM Play and a culture of best practice, as well as providing a short (newbie) intro talk on a particular topic at each event. The aim is one of encouraging play using good equipment in a safety-minded environment, alongside relaxed social areas for conversation and making friends.

This used to be Caberet Bar, but we realised that there was a Party Bar lacking from the Birmingham Gay Scene. So, we turned our attention to making Missing Birmingham's Top Party Bar! Things have changed since we took it over but things are better than ever. Let us show you why we have the best party in town.

Spartan Sauna is a discreet, safe, and clean sauna for gay men that is sure to please. we take care to provide top level relaxation and satisfaction in our venue. Check out our website for information on schedules, pics of the facilities, and more!

The Private Club Birmingham is one of those places that gets the juices flowing in a major way. When you walk into this Birmingham swingers club, you are taken into a world of fantasy and excitement unlike any other. However, this is a Members only sex club. Although you have to be a member, once you are, you are welcomed with sexy parties, kinky events, and great atmosphere for swingers all over the UK. The Private Club Birmingham has themed events at least six nights a week and it provides its visitors with ample opportunities to spread their kinky wings. Come feel a part of the sexy vibes and enjoy yourself while mingling with the hottest patrons of any sex club in Birmingham. You can find like minded singles, couple and groups and feel safe in our provided safe space. The Private Club Birmingham even has its own kink friendly staff willing and waiting to help you navigate your night of debauchery. The hosts and hostesses of this Birmingham swingers club are there for your pleasure and can show you how to swing! So even if you're a nervous newbie, we have the right people to help you get in the mood. Although we are all about the naughty times in Birmingham swingers clubs, we have a high standard for safety. We promote a safe play space as well as cooperate with the Umbrella safety project. If you go to a swingers club in Birmingham that doesn't follow these guidelines and provide you with the safes space possible, you are in the wrong place. The Private Club Birmingham does everything it can to live up to this standard. Visit the website for more information, scheduling, and news. Also follow us on Social Media for up to date content and goodies. You won't regret it. We are the most inclusive Birmingham swingers club in the region.

This is one of the coolest bars you can go to. Sidewalk is located in the heart of the gay village. come for a chilled meal or a wild night out. We know how to give you the best of both. We have an extensive menu that offers a wide range of delicious dishes. It's built to excite everyone’s taste buds. We have the deal for you, available all day, every day

Your weekends aren't complete if you don't stop by Boltz Club in Birmingham. This kinky venue has the best in adult partying for the boys and each night has it's own amazing buzz. It's a shocking good time here and you won't want to miss it.

The Birmingham version of our marvelously luscious brand, XXL Birmingham brings you the same quality and standards associated with our London branch. If you haven't been to one of our parties, you're missing out. Come check out our website and see the events we have coming up and more information to make your experience XXL!

Nightingales is a club like no other where inclusion is key and an open mind is paramount. Come join us every weekend for a great time while watching amazing shows, meeting new people, and tasting delicious drinks. We have everything you need and more!

If you're ready to repair your body in a relaxing environment with all the facilities you need to be tip top, then Unit 2 is the place for you. Our friendly staff is here to help you through your experience and you will have no worries at all once you walk through our doors.

Every night in the Village, this very special venue brings its guests one of the best, lively nights out on the town. Great drink specials, good food, and awesome atmosphere are just the beginning when walking through the doors of this Birmingham staple.

Eden is one of the most popular and well established bars on the Birmingham gay scene. Since opening our doors in March 2008, after a massive refurbishment from the old White Swan, we've become known as a friendly, fun and entertaining place to be. Open from 2pm every day of the week eden is the perfect place for a relaxing afternoon drink, game of pool or just chilling out in our fantastic outdoor area; voted Birmingham's best at the 2010 Midlands Zone awards.