Dates in Grand Rapids

I am a CIS man looking for a CIS woman that would be interested in a dinner date that may lead to more:

I am not looking for something "tonight", this would be a planned outing in the near future.

We would start the evening with a public meet up, this could be dinner at a restaurant, coffee at a cafe, or something similar. Where we could get to know each other and discuss desires and limits.

If everything goes well and you choose to join me at a hotel for the rest of the evening. We could rent a movie and continue a more private discussion of kink. Verbal (possibly written) consent would be required before any play would begin.

I typically enjoy giving pleasure more than being the receiver. I enjoy giving massages (standard or tantric): shoulders, back, and feet are where I am most capable. I have large firm hands that like to explore and tease. I am dominant but am more than willing to listen to input and/or follow commands if you are able to depict your preferences/needs. If you choose to leave me in control, I promise not to disappoint.

Most, if not all, things kink about me can be found on my profile. Any/all questions and concerns are welcome, my DM's are open.

Requirements:
(I will reciprocate all)
-At least 2 non filtered photos before meeting (Face/full body preferred, nothing explicit just nobody enjoys being catfished)
-A recent STD test with negative results
-Your own form of transportation (In the event you choose to leave at any point)
-A list of allergies (if applicable)
-An open mind

Additional notes:
-Penetrative intercourse is not a requirement, but would be preferable. (I will supply my own preferred latex condoms)
-If you have your own toys/tools that you would like to bring, that is more than welcome.(As long as they are clean/sanitary)
-I have a small collection of brand new toys/tools that I will bring that you could choose to keep if we utilize them. (or will be disposed of)
-I am by no means a professional, I will be very forward and honest with any discussed experiences.
-I hope not to upset or offend anyone, I am just trying to be clear with my intentions and expectations.
-If you've read this far you can pick the dessert after dinner!
-Whoever may read this, I hope you have a great day!