Dates in Brooklyn

Hey, I’m Randy, I live in NYC, and I am 54. I am monogamous, but I am also unconventional, not traditional, not into heteronormative gender roles, and strongly anti-patriarchy. Even though I don’t currently identify as someone who practices relationship anarchy, I do resemble that. I am tender hearted and kind, I have a very calm and grounded energy. I’m emotionally mature and emotionally available. However, I do like a little spice in the bedroom. I like someone who’s loyal and devoted, because I will be, but to be honest, I like someone who is sex positive and isn’t afraid of being a “slut“ for me. I’d love to be with someone who is uninhibited sexually, but is also capable of loving and being loved in a monogamous relationship. Does that even exist? If you’re in Manhattan or Brooklyn and this sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you. I do prefer a slow burn, because I don’t trust immediate sparks, but if we both stick around for the long-term, I will absolutely be good to you and you will feel loved, probably more than you’ve ever felt before. I’ve always been a lover of love, and I always will be.