Dates in Toledo

What is the actual likelihood that a couple finds the sought-after playmate they've been fantasizing about for ages now? I'm starting to understand that even when approached responsibly and respectfully, with transparency and upfront expectancies, not that these things are hard to comply with in our case, the reality of it actually occurring is slim. It would definitely seem that random chances would be more likely than the other.
What are people searching for nowadays? What's trending in the universe of sexual fantasy?