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## Hi ! Welcome to my page ❤️
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I am a 27 year old chubby sub.
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# ❗️Note:
Ich spreche schon deutsch, ihr brauch mir nicht auf Englisch zu schreiben lol
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# What I am not looking for:
• I am not looking for anything long distance,
must be in Freiburg and surrounding
• no online play, I like to first chat, then eventually meet in public
• no casual dating
• A short term relationship
• Not older than ~33 years
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# What I am into:
I am demisexual, I need connections between minds to fully enjoy it.
I enjoy ddlg, praise, cuddles, warmth and security, switching back and forth from good to bad treatment, verbal teasing and ***, you doing things to me, manhandling, to be ***d, certain ***, control, pleasing, serving, threesome, a little of jealousy, being slutty, free use, 24/7, manipulation (and letting me know about it later)
-> but all depends on my mood, my feeling for security with the person and the dynamic
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# My submission:
I don’t submit that easily. I need a “reason” to submit first. I am very selective.
Theres no need for long on going small talk, show me who you are as person and as dom, show me your dominant character, just don’t demand too much too early. I am very careful how fast I show and share of myself due to bad experiences (blackmailing) so patience is the key.
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I love d/s dynamics, and I enjoy being a sub a lot.. being able to be submissive gives me purpose. The sexual energy behind being disciplined and ordered gives me the motivation needed do annoying things in life happily and with more discipline.
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I do enjoy to be cute & silly, sometimes bratty, sometimes slutty, I wouldn’t primarily consider myself a brat, but I still enjoy being it sometimes “on purpose”, for flirting and provocation..
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In the end of the day my biggest goal tho is and always will be to be a devoted sub, to submit, to be led.. Usually my submission is triggered by authority, seriousness, and playfull teasing sometimes up to degrading/mean comments and behavior/treatment but also praise. It starts in my head first.
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Besides things I mentioned, like all kinds of play and rough play, I like to feel depending on you, I like to feel owned and cared for, receive affectionate dominance with good and non sadistic intentions, as priority you care about our safety and health first, I am protected and save with you and there will be always a healthy communication. Since for me there is only a fine line between reality and the dynamic you will catch me if i fall. There will be aftercare, where you hold me, praise, cuddle and caress me and tell me my value for you. It comes as a package.
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# Vanilla me
In my vanilla life im a chill, “live and let live” type of person, I like anything fun and enjoy all kinds of activities, I like fun sports, coziness, anything chill or going a night out and get drunk or high. Loving techno and latin music! Hmu if you need a rave buddy or date lol. Currently I am pretty dedicated to my studies. I am a more emotional type of person, i care about emotional intelligence and maturity. Communication is a big topic for me since a lot of people don’t seem to feel comfortable with it. I know what I want and why, it can seem egoistic and demanding but it’s not meant to be. Communication skills are important because we aint able to guess wishes and resentment, you should be able to tell me respectfully whats going on your mind, to be able to say yes and no or let me know in the after march or once you change your mind, please know and communicate interpersonal limits. I might come across quiet or shy depending on my surrounding, but I am a pretty assertive person throughout my life, I don’t mince words, I know what I want and hate if people think they can tell me otherwise. But as it sometimes is, I enjoy the contrary of independence being a sub.
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== Mein BDSM Test von FET App ==
100% Submissive
0% Dominant
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Submissive
90% Degradee
90% Masochist
89% Boy/Girl
85% Non-monogamist
85% Brat
80% Ageplayer
80% Salve
80% Exhibitionist
80% Rope bunny
75% Voyeur
70% Experimentalist
40% Primal (Prey)
7% Pet
0% Vanilla
0% Switch