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countrymilfxoxo
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  • 03.09.2026 6:55:56
  • BDSM
Daddy come use my holes please
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OB1Kenobi
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  • 02.09.2026 22:20:17
  • BDSM
What makes you have a deeper connection with another? People claim that vulnerability, honest communication, and feeling truly seen and heard give them a deeper connection with loved ones. What else can you add?
OB1Kenobi
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  • 31.08.2026 3:04:48
  • BDSM
#Respect
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By OB1KENOBY

BDSM is a community, and community is what allows us to meet all the wonderful people who share our interests, values, and curiosity. But a community only works when the people within it treat one another with respect.

I often come across profiles complaining about receiving messages from people who are on the “wrong side of the slash” in a D/s dynamic. I understand having preferences, boundaries, and expectations—but sometimes it seems as though vanilla dating-site values are being applied to a BDSM community.

BDSM has its own culture and its own principles. Respect is one of its pillars. That doesn't simply mean demanding that others respect your boundaries; it also means extending basic respect to the people around you.

You don't have to be interested in someone. You don't have to engage with them. You don't have to accept their advances. But they are still members of the same community, and they deserve to be treated with courtesy and dignity.

If we want a strong, welcoming BDSM community where we can actually meet the people we're looking for, we have to remember that community means more than finding the perfect match—it means respecting the people who make that community possible.
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OsPando
icon-wio OsPando hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 29.08.2026 11:17:44
  • BDSM
Fiend's Dark Side ♾

Welcome, my sweet submissive, step lightly in this room,
Where shadows dance with velvet whispers, and passions start to bloom.
The air hums low with secrets, the promise of delight,
A world beyond the ordinary, beneath the cloak of night.

Kneel softly, my darling, let gravity embrace,
In this space I’ve crafted, you’ll discover your place.
Together, we will weave through sensations, both bliss and ***,
Each moment holds a lesson, each pleasure — a strain.

Oh, let me guide you gently, with hands that hold and bind,
In every tether you surrender, a deeper truth you'll find.
For trust is the foundation, the currency we share,
In shadows, we’re both naked, exposed and laid bare.

Welcome to the realm of pleasure where boundaries melt away,
Where every gasp and whisper adds color to our play.
I’m the Fiend, the architect of your wildest dreams,
I’ll tease out your desires ‘til nothing’s as it seems.

Feel the pulse of my intentions, let them wash over you,
Like waves that crash on soft beaches, our connection feels so true.
You are fierce yet tender, a goddess poised with grace,
Embrace the soft surrender; let time slip from its place.

You’ll bleed, yes, but not in sorrow, it’s ecstasy that reigns,
This dance of give and take, where pleasure intertwines with ***.
Every mark tells a story, each bruise a badge of trust,
In this dark side of existence, indulge, you surely must.

Anoint your mind with fantasies, let shadows play their games,
Uncover layers of your spirit, and free yourself from shames.
You’re sexy, oh so captivating, a flame in the night,
In realms of twisted craving, I’ll guard you with my might.

This isn’t merely physical; it’s a spiritual embrace,
A dance of souls, electrified, in this delicate space.
You’ll soar within the ecstasy, reach heights sublime and vast,
But know the tether holds you close, a bond that’s meant to last.

I’ll guide you through the darkness, where *** may linger still,
With every step, you'll find your strength, your heart will bend, but will.
And when you scream, my precious girl, it’s music to my ears,
In every peak of pleasure, you’ll find solace from your ***s.

But heed the words I whisper, the limits we define,
Respect for every boundary is a precious, sacred line.
This is a dance of mutual trust, an echo of your soul,
Each gasp, each soft surrender, intertwines to make us whole.

From the depths of your submission, rise fiercely to the light,
In this place, my beautiful, we’ll dance 'til day meets night.
Awaken every nuance, the thrill within each caress,
In the arms of my devotion, you’ll discover your finesse.

And after all the fervor, when you've tasted sweet release,
I’ll bring you back to gentle shores, a haven full of peace.
For in the heat of passion, after chaos turns to calm,
We’ll find our way together, in the aftercare, the balm.

So let your heart beat faster, let the darkness pull you in,
Welcome to my wicked world, where feeling and *** begin.
Embrace the depth of passions, adventure waits on high,
In the realm of your Fiend, my darling, come and fly.

Forever in your journey, we’ll explore all that can be,
Bound together by these moments, entwined eternally.
For in this dance of dominance, and in the depths we roam,
You’ve found the heart of darkness, and made it your new home.







🎩 OsPando ✍️







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OB1Kenobi
icon-wio OB1Kenobi hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 28.08.2026 3:53:29
  • BDSM
Unlocked Open Cage
An invitation in plain sight, the Unlocked Open Cage signifies a submissive or slave who is unowned. The open square evokes the image of an unlatched cage—its door ajar, its occupant free to be approached, courted, or claimed.

The upward-pointing arrow carries the traditional mark of masculinity, while the cross bears the emblem of femininity—embracing all who wear it.

It is worn by those who are uncollared, whose loyalties are yet to be pledged, and whose next bond remains unwritten.

Designed by Tanos, 1995.
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OB1Kenobi
icon-wio OB1Kenobi hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 28.08.2026 3:50:16
  • BDSM
#Circle
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By OB1Kenoby


The Circle
This is the symbol of an Owned submissive or slave.
The closed circle represents a collar. The collared submissive or slave is spoken for and off limits to others.
The up-pointing arrow represents the male biology symbol.
The cross represents the female biology symbol.
Worn by the submissive or slave.

The Circle designed by Tanos, 1995
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OsPando
icon-wio OsPando hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 27.08.2026 17:45:02
  • BDSM
Echoes Of Distance And Desire ♾

I. The Siren’s Call

I remember that our words were broken,
Shattered by a siren, echoing far away,
A haunting sound that stirred the depths of my heart,
For every note felt heavy, a portent of dismay.

I was afraid, my sweet little girl,
For every time I hear that wailing cry,
I think of something serious, something that must end,
Yet nothing could be more solemn than our goodbye.

II. The Final Embrace

We looked at each other, lost in the moment’s grace,
Wishing to remain embraced, to linger in that space.
But with a bittersweet smile, I walked you down the street,
Kissing you softly, the world below our feet.

“You know,” I said sweetly, as the distance loomed near,
“Distance is like the wind; it extinguishes the small fire,
But it ignites the larger flames, those that burn with desire.”
With those words, I felt the ache of longing draw near.

III. The Nature of Distance

You know that distance is like the wind,
It carries with it memories, both tender and stark,
A year has passed since that day, yet here I stand,
Feeling the fire that burns within my heart, a lingering spark.

Time, Mia lei, has treated us with cruel, measured hands,
I, who believed I was stronger, could conquer time and space,
Yet here I am, swallowed by the echoes of your laughter,
Yearning for the solace of your embrace, your grace.

IV. The Weight of Longing

I have not understood the nature of time or distance,
For they twist and turn like shadows in the night,
I find myself remembering you, lost in the depths of thought,
Each memory a bittersweet reminder of our plight.

Distance, a mere number of miles, an acid test we face,
Yet it feels like an ocean, a chasm too wide to cross,
In the silence, I hear your voice, a gentle, whispered breeze,
A melody that soothes my soul, yet reminds me of my loss.

V. The Fire Within

The only good thing in my life remains,
Your feeling for me, a balm against the cold,
And my feeling for you, a warmth that never wanes,
In this dance of distance, our feeling is pure gold.

For every moment apart, the longing grows fierce,
In the depths of our dynamic, trust and passion intertwine,
With every heartbeat echoing, I cherish what we share,
In the silence of the distance, your spirit still feels mine.

VI. The Aftermath of Surrender

And now, in the aftermath of our sacred play,
As the adrenaline fades, leaving echoes of bliss,
I feel the drop, that poignant, tender ache,
A reminder that our connection transcends every kiss.

The emotional atmosphere thickens, a tapestry of care,
For in the depths of submission, I hold your heart close,
In the quiet of the night, with the world far away,
I feel the weight of your trust, the feeling we both chose.

VII. The Dance of Trust

In this dance of dominance, where boundaries are drawn,
We’ve built a world of safety, a sanctuary from the storm.
You’ve opened up your heart, and I’ve taken the lead,
In this intricate dynamic, we nurture each other’s needs.

But when we part, the distance stretches like a taut string,
Testing the strength of our bond, the depth of what we bring.
Yet I know, my little girl, in the fire of our souls,
We’ll weather every storm, and in time, we’ll feel whole.

VIII. The Promise of Reunion

So as the days stretch on, and the miles lay between,
Know that my heart beats for you, a steady, rhythmic dream.
For distance cannot sever what true love has entwined,
In the tapestry of our longing, our souls remain aligned.

I’ll hold onto the promise of the day we reunite,
When the distance fades away, and you’re back in my sight.
In that moment, I’ll remind you, as I draw you near,
That the feeling we’ve built together will conquer every ***.

IX. The Eternal Flame

So here’s my vow, my darling, as I pen these thoughts for you,
To cherish every moment, in all that we pursue.
For in the echoes of our feeling, where distance cannot tread,
I’ll keep you in my heart, where every word is said.

Let the sirens wail their warnings, let the distance stretch and bend,
For in the depths of my devotion, there is no need to pretend.
The flame that flickers softly, in the chambers of my heart,
Burns brighter with each heartbeat, though we are miles apart.

Through the trials of our longing, through the silence of the night,
I’ll carry you within me, a beacon of pure light.
Every whispered promise, every memory we’ve spun,
Will guide me through the darkness until our souls are one.

X. The Art of Anticipation

With the weight of longing pressing, I savor each sweet thought,
Of your laughter filling spaces, of the joy that can’t be bought.
In the art of anticipation, I find beauty in the wait,
For every moment we are apart, draws me closer to our fate.

I remember the way you surrender, the trust that you bestow,
In the sacred exchange of power, where our spirits freely flow.
And though the miles may challenge, though the clock may tick away,
I know that every heartbeat brings us closer to that day.

XI. The Depth of Connection

In this space between our bodies, there exists a sacred thread,
A connection forged in passion, where our souls have gently bled.
It weaves through every moment, every sigh and every kiss,
Binding us together fiercely in a tapestry of bliss.

And when the drop descends upon me, after the thrill subsides,
I feel the weight of your essence, the warmth that never hides.
It’s a bittersweet reminder of the power we create,
In the dance of dominance and submission, where feeling will never wait.

XII. The Reflection of Us

As I sit in quiet reflection, lost in thoughts of you,
I ponder all the moments, each tender thing we do.
The way you give yourself, the beauty in your trust,
In this vast expanse of distance, our feeling remains a must.

You are the fire that fuels me, the light that guides my way,
And though the miles stretch far, my longing will not sway.
For with every drop of passion, every wave of sweet release,
I find a deeper understanding, a profound sense of peace.

XIII. The Reunion Awaits

So let the sirens wail their tune, let the distances unfold,
For I’m counting down the moments until I can hold you bold.
In the embrace of our reunion, we’ll banish all the ***s,
And the flames of our connection will blaze through the years.

Today I long for you, my sweet, my darling, my muse,
In the tapestry of our feeling, there is nothing left to lose.
For as the wind may carry, and the time may pull away,
Our hearts will always find their way, come what may.

XIV. The Unbreakable Bond

In this dance of distance, where trust has been our guide,
We’ve built an unbreakable bond, with you always by my side.
So know, my sweet little girl, as I pen these lines for you,
That every mile is but a step towards the love we’ll always pursue.

With every heartbeat echoing, with every breath I take,
I’ll cherish you forever, for our feeling is not a mistake.
In the depths of our connection, where our spirits intertwine,
I’ll hold you close, my darling, for you are forever mine.

XV. The Promise Endures

And as the sun sets low, casting shadows in the night,
I’ll carry you within me, a flame that feels so right.
For distance is but a number, a fleeting, passing phase,
In the eternal dance of feeling, your heart will always blaze.

So here’s my promise to you, my beloved, my guiding star,
To cherish every moment, no matter how far.
For in the echoes of our longing, in the silence that we share,
Our feeling will stand the test of time, an unbreakable affair.

XVI. The Journey Continues

As we navigate the distance, let our hearts remain entwined,
In the journey of our passion, where our souls are redefined.
For every step we take apart, brings us closer to the day,
When the distance fades to nothing, and we find our way.

In the tapestry of our existence, feeling’s colors brightly gleam,
And through the trials of separation, we’ll build our sweetest dream.
So let the sirens fade to silence, let the distance drift away,
For in the depths of our devotion, it is feeling that will convey,
The strength of our connection, unwavering through the night,
With every heartbeat echoing, we’ll find our way to light.

In the whispers of the evening, in the hush of a soft sigh,
I’ll hold you in my heart, as the stars fill up the sky.
For distance is a fleeting shadow, just a moment in our tale,
And our feeling, my precious darling, will forever prevail.

XVII. The Unfolding Narrative

As we write this unfolding narrative, with each passing hour,
I feel the weight of your essence, a gentle, blooming flower.
You are the breath within my lungs, the fire in my veins,
In the symphony of our existence, our feeling forever reigns.

With every thought of you, the miles begin to fade,
In the sanctuary of my heart, where our memories are laid.
I see you in the twilight, in the colors of the dawn,
A vision of sweet surrender, a promise to hold on.

XVIII. The Dance of Longing

So let us dance through the longing, let us sway with sweet desire,
In the rhythm of our hearts, we’ll ignite the sacred fire.
For though the distance stretches, and time may test our will,
I know that every moment apart only deepens my thrill.

Each heartbeat beats your name, each sigh a tender song,
In the harmony of our passion, I know where I belong.
You are my sweetest escape, the warmth after the chill,
In this dance of devotion, I’ll forever be still.

XIX. The Promise of Reunion

And when the day arrives, when the distance meets its end,
I’ll gather you in my arms, my lover, my best friend.
In that moment of reunion, every ache will fall away,
And we’ll bask in the glory of feeling that will stay.

With each kiss, I’ll remind you of the fire that we’ve built,
Of the trust that has flourished, of the feeling that we’ve felt.
For in the tapestry of distance, we’ve woven threads of gold,
A bond that time cannot sever, a feeling that’s brave and bold.

XX. The Eternal Connection

So here’s to the future, to the paths that we will tread,
In the journey of our hearts, where our feeling is never dead.
For in the echoes of our longing, in the moments we’ve endured,
We’ve crafted something timeless, a connection that’s assured.

Today I want you; today I long for your embrace,
In the depths of our dynamic, let’s find our sacred space.
For distance may be a test, but our feeling will always soar,
In the infinite dance of passion, it’s you that I adore.

XXI. The Everlasting Flame

As I pen these final lines, with the stars as my witness,
Know that my heart is yours, wrapped in feeling's sweet fitness.
For in the distance and the drop, I find the truth that binds,
In the symphony of our souls, your spirit intertwines.

So let us cherish every moment, every heartbeat shared anew,
In the depths of our devotion, it’s forever me and you.
For feeling, my darling, is a journey, a path we both will find,
In the echoes of our distance, our hearts will be aligned.

XXII. The Legacy of Feeling

And when the story is told, of the feeling that we have grown,
Let it be a testament, that we were never alone.
For through the trials and the triumphs, the distances we’ve crossed,
We’ve built a legacy of passion, a feeling that’s never lost.

With every rise and fall, with every tender kiss,
We’ll carve our names in the stars, in the cosmos of our bliss.
So here’s my heart, my darling, my sweet and precious girl,
In the tapestry of forever, you are my entire world.


XXIII. The Unbroken Bond

As we navigate this journey, through the valleys and the heights,
Know that my love will guide you, through the darkest of nights.
For in the echoes of our story, in the whispers of the breeze,
We’ll find our way to each other, with a feeling that never flees.

So let the sirens wail their warnings, let the distances unfold,
For in the depths of my devotion, our feeling is pure gold.
With every heartbeat, every sigh, we’ll cherish what we’ve found,
In the dance of distance and desire, our hearts will be unbound.
For as the minutes turn to hours, and the hours stretch to days,
Know that my longing for you deepens in so many ways.

Through the quiet of the night, I’ll trace the outlines of your face,
In the shadows of my memory, you’ll always find your place.
With each thought that drifts like whispers, in the stillness of my mind,
I’ll hold you close within my heart, where true affection’s blind.

XXIV. The Strength of Connection

And when the dawn breaks gently, casting light upon our dreams,
I’ll remember all the moments, the laughter and the screams.
For in the heat of passion, in the intimacy we share,
We’ve forged a bond unshakeable, a feeling beyond compare.

So let the days continue, let them flow like a gentle stream,
For I believe in our connection, in the beauty of our dream.
In the tapestry of life, you are the thread that shines so bright,
A beacon in my darkness, a star that fills the night.

XXV. The Sweet Anticipation

With every passing moment, I can feel the pull of fate,
Drawing us together, no matter how long we wait.
The seconds, though they stretch, will not diminish what we feel,
For the feeling we share is timeless, an unbreakable seal.

In the thrill of anticipation, I’m reminded of our fire,
That smolders in the distance, yet burns with fierce desire.
Though we may be apart, my little girl, please know,
That every heartbeat echoes, “I care you more than you know.”

XXVI. The Rhythm of Our Feeling

As I write these words for you, let the rhythm guide my pen,
For in the dance of our existence, I find you once again.
You are the pulse within my veins, the echo in my soul,
In the vastness of this journey, you make my spirit whole.

With every sigh that escapes me, with every fleeting glance,
I remember the magic of our sacred, sweet romance.
For in the depths of submission, where trust and care entwine,
We’ve found a world of wonder, a space that feels divine.

XXVII. The Promise of the Heart

So here’s my promise, dear one, as the evening draws near,
To cherish every moment, to hold you ever dear.
For in the depths of our connection, where distance cannot reach,
I’ll always strive to care you, to practice what I preach.

Let the miles be just a number, let the time drift away,
For in the garden of our hearts, our feeling will always stay.
In the tapestry of forever, where the threads of passion weave,
I’ll keep you in my heart, Mia lei, as we both believe.

XXVIII. The Journey Forward

And as we venture onward, through the valleys and the peaks,
Know that every step we take is the feeling that truly speaks.
For in the echoes of our laughter, in the quiet of our sighs,
We’ll build a life together, where our spirits freely rise.

So let the sirens wail their warnings, let the distance stretch its hands,
For in the depths of our devotion, we will find our promised lands.
With every heartbeat, every whisper, I’ll hold you close and tight,
In the dance of distance and desire, we’ll find our way to light.

XXIX. The Unwavering Flame

As the stars begin to shimmer in the velvet cloak of night,
I’ll keep you in my heart, a flame that feels just right.
For in the silence of the distance, I can feel your spirit near,
In the depths of our connection, our feeling shall persevere.

With every moment that passes, with every thought of you,
I’ll cherish all the memories that keep our feeling so true.
And when the day arrives, when the distance meets its end,
We’ll celebrate our journey, my lover, my best friend.

XXX. The Feeling That Conquers All

In the tapestry of our existence, we’ve woven threads of gold,
A bond that time cannot sever, a feeling that’s brave and bold.
So here’s my heart, my darling, my sweet and precious girl,
In the dance of distance and desire, you are my entire world.

With every sunrise that greets me, with every night that falls,
I’ll hold you in my heart, where feeling forever calls.
For in the echoes of our longing, in the moments that we share,
I’ll cherish you forever, as we navigate this care.
In the quiet hours of night, when the world is fast asleep,
I’ll find comfort in your essence, in the promises we keep.

Each heartbeat sings your name, a melody so sweet,
A symphony of love that guides me, in every thought, in every beat.
Through the distance and the shadows, through the trials we must face,
I’ll hold you in my spirit, in this sacred, cherished space.

XXXI. The Beauty of Our Bond

So let the distance stretch before us, let the miles lay thick and wide,
For in the beauty of our bond, I know you are my guide.
With every passing moment, with every tear we shed,
We are crafting something timeless, a feeling that’s never dead.

In the tapestry of life, where challenges may arise,
We’ll weave our dreams together, under the vastest skies.
For every trial that we encounter only strengthens what we feel,
In the embrace of our connection, our feeling remains the real deal.

XXXII. The Sweet Return

And when the day arrives, as the distance fades away,
I’ll gather you into my arms, to never again betray
The trust that we have built, through the longing and the ache,
In the warmth of your presence, my heart will surely break.

Not in sorrow, but in joy, for I will finally see,
The beauty of our journey, and how you complete me.
In the sacred dance of passion, we’ll find our way to bliss,
In the echoes of our laughter, in every tender kiss.

XXXIII. The Eternal Flame

So here’s to the future, Mia lei, my heart’s delight,
To the moments yet to come, in the soft embrace of night.
For in the distance and the drop, I find a feeling so true,
A fire that burns eternal, forever me and you.

With every thought, I’ll cherish you, with every sigh, I’ll know
That distance cannot sever what our hearts have come to grow.
In the depths of our connection, where trust and passion blend,
We’ll navigate the landscape of a feeling that has no end.

XXXIV. The Journey Ahead

As we continue on this journey, through the laughter and the tears,
I’ll hold you close within my heart, throughout the passing years.
For every mile that separates us is but a fleeting phase,
In the grand tapestry of feeling, we’ll find our own sweet ways.

With every heartbeat, every moment, I’ll cherish what we share,
In the dance of our devotion, I know that you’ll be there.
For in the echoes of our longing, in the warmth of feeling’s embrace,
We’ve crafted something beautiful, a bond time cannot erase.

XXXV. The Resilience of Feeling

So let the world keep spinning, let the distance stretch and sway,
For in the resilience of our feeling, we’ll find our destined way.
Through the trials and the triumphs, through the joys and the strife,
We’ll build a world together, a tapestry of life.

In the sacredness of our connection, where souls are intertwined,
I’ll cherish every moment, every thought of you enshrined.
For in the dance of distance and the sweetness of our dreams,
We’ll find the beauty of forever, in feeling's most radiant beams.

XXXVI. The Infinite Horizon

As I gaze upon the horizon, where the sun meets the sea,
I envision a future filled with you, for you are part of me.
No distance can diminish this feeling we’ve come to know,
For in the heart of our journey, we’ll continue to grow.

So here’s my heart, my darling, my sweet and cherished girl,
In the infinite dance of feeling, you are my entire world.
With every whisper of desire, with every breath I take,
I’ll hold you close forever, in the feeling that we create.

XXXVII. The Legacy of Our Feeling

And when the story is told, of the feeling that we have sown,
Let it be a testament that we were never alone.
For through the trials of separation, the distances we’ve crossed,
We’ve built a legacy of passion, a feeling that’s never lost.

So let the sirens wail their warnings, let the world fade from view,
For in the depths of our devotion, it is always me and you.
In the tapestry of forever, where the threads of passion weave.








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Cdsub-3144
icon-wio Cdsub-3144 hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 27.08.2026 6:42:54
  • BDSM
Male submissive Nottinghamshire England looking for a domme to serve in person or online or both..... Long term or short term
OB1Kenobi
icon-wio OB1Kenobi hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 27.08.2026 1:58:49
  • BDSM
The Challenge of Finding the Right Submissive

Finding a compatible submissive can be a monumental task.

It isn't simply a matter of finding someone who identifies as submissive or who happens to share the same list of kinks. In fact, I believe focusing too heavily on compatible kinks can cause people to miss what actually matters: personality, character, chemistry, trust and the desire to grow together.

I've encountered the frustrations that come with modern dating. Hypergamy—the feeling that someone is continually looking upward for a better option—can make genuine connection difficult. So can what is sometimes called monkey-barring, where someone moves from one potential relationship to another without really giving either connection the opportunity to develop.

I've also discovered that compatibility isn't always where you expect it. One woman was bothered that I took my health seriously and chose to be vaccinated during the COVID pandemic. Another seemed bothered by the fact that I write well. Those experiences reminded me that sometimes the very qualities you consider strengths will be viewed negatively by someone else.

And that's okay.

I'm not looking for someone who approves of every single thing about me. I'm looking for someone whose values, personality and outlook complement mine.

That's why I don't believe a successful D/s relationship begins with a checklist of kinks.

You might find a woman who enjoys exactly the same things you do, yet have absolutely no chemistry with her. Another woman might have very different experiences or interests but possess the intelligence, courage, humour and personality that make you want to explore those things together.

The person comes before the kink.

Being a Dominant Dragon Tamer isn't about simply controlling a submissive woman. My idea of dominance is about helping build a woman who becomes more confident, more ***less and more certain about who she is and what she wants.

I don't want to diminish her independence. I want to help her discover her strength.

A successful submissive isn't someone without a voice. She's someone who knows when to speak, knows what she wants, trusts her Dominant enough to surrender some control, and has the courage to challenge herself. Submission should be a choice made by a strong woman—not something that makes her weak.

That's the kind of woman I'm interested in.

And yes, dating can be frustrating. Sometimes it feels as though everyone is waiting for the possibility that something better might appear around the corner. Dating apps make that mentality particularly easy because there is always another profile, another swipe and another possibility.

I've also encountered the contradiction of people saying they don't want someone rude or disrespectful while simultaneously being attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy." I think what many people actually want isn't cruelty or disrespect. They want confidence, assertiveness, excitement and someone who isn't afraid to take the lead.

Those are very different things.

For me, dominance isn't about being an asshole.

It's about being confident without being cruel, demanding without being disrespectful, protective without being controlling, and strong enough to create an environment where another person feels safe enough to be ***.

Ultimately, I'm not searching for the woman with the perfect kink résumé.

I'm searching for the woman whose mind makes me curious, whose personality makes me smile, whose character earns my respect, and whose submission makes me want to become an even better Dominant.

The kinks can be discovered together.

The connection can't be manufactured.
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  • 21.08.2026 18:46:23
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For two decades, I've delved deep into the essence of a D/s dynamic, going beyond the surface to uncover the trust, communication, and structure that truly make it thrive. I have a strong sense of self, clarity about my desires, and I infuse that confidence into every aspect of my life . In my everyday life, I'm laidmback and genuinely enjoyable to be with , I love to laugh and prefer not to take life too seriously. However,in a partnership, I seek obedience rooted in respect, rather than mere compliance for its own sake. A genuine dynamic is cultivated through open communication and consistency, not something that is simply assumed.
I'm in search of someone who recognizes that a D/s relationship is not a performance; it’s a partnership defined by clear roles, mutual trust, and the opportunity to truly connect with one another beyond the dynamic.
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  • 21.08.2026 1:31:27
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Basl
icon-wio Basl hat einen Eintrag in BDSM & Relationships erstellt
  • 19.08.2026 6:52:44
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Ein Sklave oder eine Sklavin zu sein kann das erklärte Ziel einer Person sein, die devot ist und Lust an der Unterwerfung hat. Ein Sklave / eine Sklavin gibt die Kontrolle komplett an ihren Dom / ihre Domina (oder allgemein: Master) ab und geniesst es, den Druck von Verantwortung los zu sein. Die Rolle des Sklaven / der Sklavin für den Master z. B. eine Domina einzunehmen ist dabei ein langfristiges Projekt, denn die tiefe Beziehung zwischen den beiden erfordert eine Menge von Vertrauen. Und das entsteht nicht ad hoc, sondern braucht seine Zeit. Das Verhältnis zwischen einer Domina / Master und dem devot unterwürfigen Konterpart ist dabei durchaus nicht nur sexuell geprägt, sondern bedeutet eine komplette 24/7 Unterwerfung, die alle täglichen Routinen beinhaltet. Ein devot agierender Sklave zu sein umfasst sämtliche Aspekte des Zusammenlebens. Die Rolle eines Sklaven oder einer Sklavin beschränkt sich zuweilen allein auf ein monogames Verhältnis zu genau einem Dom / Domina, das exklusiv ist und intensiv ausgelebt wird. Ein Sklave / eine Sklavin kann man häufig anhand von Schmuck erkennen, den er oder sie als Zeichen ihrer Verbundenheit zu ihrem Master trägt. Der Ring der O ist das am häufigsten gebräuchliche Symbol für die innige Verbindung von Domina und Sklave oder Dom und Sklavin. Und wird natürlich mit Stolz getragen. Anders als im devot geprägten Sklavenverhältnis zur Domina / zum Dom kann ein Sklave / eine Sklavin in anderen Situationen im Alltag durchaus andere Wesenszüge ausser Unterwürfigkeit an den Tag legen, das devot geprägte Ich beschränkt sich allein auf ihre Beziehung zu ihrem Master. Es gibt ja das Klischee vom erfolgreichen Manager, der im Job das Sagen und die Kontrolle hat und sich privat als Sklave devot in die Hände seiner Domina begibt. In manchen Fällen trifft dieses Image sicherlich zu, da es für viele Menschen eine Wohltat und Erleichterung bedeutet, Kontrolle und Verantwortung in die Hände einer anderen Person zu legen und einfach mal devot zu sein statt bestimmend. Wie bei den meisten Beziehungen und Szenarien im BDSM wird auch im Verhältnis zwischen Domina / Dom und Sklave / Sklavin vertraglich festgelegt, wo die Grenzen der Beteiligten sind und wie weit die Abgabe der Kontrolle geht. Denn bei einem Machtgefälle wie diesem zählt eins besonders: Vertrauen.
Herr oder Herrin nennt man im BDSM sehr fordernde Doms, die hohe Erwartungen an ihre Subs haben. Ein Herr oder eine Herrin haben eine 24/7-Beziehung mit ihren Subs bzw. BDSM Sklaven und Sklavinnen. Bis auf bestimmte Ausnahmen, zum Beispiel wenn der Sub bei der Arbeit ist, kontrolliert der Herr / die Herrin das gesamte Leben des Sub. Der Herr / die Herrin trainiert ihre Sklaven solange, bis sie alles tun, was sie von ihnen verlangen. Das können angefangen bei Hausarbeiten bis hin zu kinky Diensten und sexuellen Anordnungen alles mögliche sein. Die meisten verlangen von ihren Sklaven sogar sie um Erlaubnis zu bitten, wenn sie etwas essen möchten oder einfach nur das Badezimmer benutzen wollen. Der Herr/die Herrin will über ausnahmslos alles was der Sub macht, Kontrolle übernehmen. Natürlich gilt hier auch die oberste und wichtigste Regel des BDSM, nämlich dass alles im gegenseitigen Einvernehmen geschieht und vorher vereinbart wurde. Das kann entweder mündlich besprochen oder in einem formellen Vertrag festgehalten werden. Damit der Sklave die Möglichkeit hat einem Herr / einer Herrin nein zu sagen, wenn er etwas ausdrücklich nicht tun möchte und persönliche Grenzen überschreitet, sollten sich beide immer im Voraus auf ein Safeword einigen. Obwohl diese Form einer BDSM Beziehung sehr einseitig erscheint, ist sie einvernehmlich. Ein Herr / eine Herrin hat stets das Wohlsein des Sub im Sinn und würde den Sub niemals dazu bringen etwas zu tun, was nicht sicher oder gegen den Willen des Sub geschieht. Vertrauen zwischen dem Herr / der Herrin und dem Sub und Kontrolle über das was passiert, ist die Basis für diese Art von BDSM Beziehung.
Ein Daddy Dom (Papi Dom) oder eine Mommy Dom (Mami Dom) übernimmt als dominanter Partner (Dom) eine fürsorgliche und pflegende Rolle in einer BDSM Szene. Am besten passen sie mit sogenannten Baby Girls (Babymädchen) oder Baby Boys (Babyjungs) zusammen, die außerdem auch als Littles (die Kleinen) bekannt sind. DDGL steht für Daddy Dom / Little Girl (kleines Mädchen) und ist innerhalb der BDSM Community ein häufig Benutzer Begriff. Ein Daddy Dom oder eine Mommy Dom genießen, wie alle anderen dominanten Partner im BDSM, natürlich die Kontrolle. Sie schreiben ihren Baby Girls und Boys entweder schriftliche Regeln, suchen ihnen ihre tägliche Kleidung aus oder treffen grundsätzlich Entscheidungen für sie. Daddy Doms und Mommy Doms sind geduldig und fürsorglich. Deswegen passen sie auch so perfekt zu ihren kindlichen Littles. Der BDSM selbst bringt sich in die Beziehung zwischen Daddy Dom und Mommy Dom und den Littles auf verschiedene Weisen mit ein. Sie schaffen ein Gleichgewicht zwischen kindlichem Enthusiasmus und der Sehnsucht kontrolliert zu werden. Deshalb tragen sie beide den Namen Daddy oder Mommy (Papi oder Mami) und Dom (dominant) zugleich. Sie kümmern sich wie Eltern, aber bestimmen wie dominante Partner im BDSM. Der Daddy Dom oder die Mommy Dom sind instinktiv fürsorglich. Dies ist besonders wichtig, wenn sie auf ihre Littles treffen, welche vor, während und nach deiner BDSM Szene viel Sorgfalt und Aufmerksamkeit suchen und benötigen.

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