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Beschreibung
Rock fan... travelled the world... now loitering in Wolves.
Currently I've hit 23 countries in 25 years! in the year before covid Austria and Czech Republic were added, as well as a trip to San Fran! Then, last year, Cyprus became no.23
I'm 51. I work. I know the difference between a hat and a boa constrictor who's swallowed an elephant! (You'd be surprised who doesn't!)
I am, adept at adapting! I've a formidable vocabulary, and IQ, neither of which get much of an outing in everyday life. Disparate not desperate fits me well. Complex yet simple.
I'm pretty much Occam's (sic : Ockham!) worst nightmare. Come say "Hi!".
I'm more than the sum of my parts. Which is probably a good thing. They're old (but not THAT old) and need tending to. haha
I'm happy to be switch. I want someone else to be in control at times. The idea of being pegged excites me... That doesn't mean to say I'm adverse to taking control. It's all about the situation!
There's much to explore.
Wear stockings (with suspenders.. NOT hold ups!! They're cheating!) for me and I'll be putty in your hands. Well... perhaps putty isn't biologically accurate given it's a malleable thing and I would be somewhat.. rigider! Is that a word? It is now!
I'm generally playful. Get my brain working and you'll have access to the rest easily. It is possible to engage my body first... but it's unusual. I know me and know what I react to... but.. there's always that one person who pops up and stirs something different... and who doesn't like the idea of being swept away by urges?
My brain definitely needs engaging. I can be excited by a visual, but I'm looking for something more substantial. I like to be pushed (as well as pulled) and enjoy confidence in a lass. Especially when she knows I like her. It's.. exciting to be *** to her. Reactive in a way that I'm not able to control.
Make of all this what you will. Prod me at your leisure. See what I am to/for you. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Grenzen
Engaging with people who are very obviously not what they're attempting to be.
Meine Rollen
Was ich sexy finde
Das mache ich gerne:
- Analspiele
- Anal-Kette
- Analplugs
- Titten
- Busen Fetisch
- Korsetts
- Cunnilingus
- Dessous Fetisch
- Facesitting
- Weibliche Ejakulation
- Fesselung (aktiv)
- Klitorispumpe
- Erotische Laktation
- Multiple Orgasmen (aktiv)
- Gegenseitiges Masturbieren
- Brust/Nippel-Behandlung
- Nippel
- Oralsex (aktiv)
- Orgasmuskontrolle
- Penisring
- Prostata Stimulatoren
- Spanking
- Squirting
- Devot (aktiv)
- Vibratoren
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9 hours without it.. 5 visitors of which I can only see one!
Seems legit lmfao
It's the same with locations. Sooooo many that state they're 10km or so away and yet their pics all have usa / mainland Weiterlesen… europe plug sockets in them!
I've been here now over 5 years and not met a single member in person! 90% of messages go unread let alone unanswered and while I get that a woman's inbox is probably chock full of "I'll do this to you" messages lacking nuance and any hint of seduction the statistical numbers are somewhat shocking in terms of response rate.
Hope may spring eternal but yet, you have to weigh up the balance of effort output to results, plus empirical evidence and wonder.. what's the point in trying? As someone who lives to give pleasure, sometimes my own requires attention too and this desolate desert devoid of stimulation in terms of communication seems an unlikely landscape to be finding anything.
Which, given the vast swathe of undulations in the pictures here, makes it all the more disappointing.
Hands up who thinks 99% will be 1000 miles or more away?
To want that, I don't think constitutes being a "sub".
Offering yourself as essentially an accessory, like a toy, can be one way of seeing it... to be used without a way to influence how.. and that's fine if you ARE Weiterlesen… a sub..
But yet what this also does, is to offer up the choice...
Does she want that? To use me?
Or does she instead, chose to pleasure you, forsaking her own physical stimulation for the mental one of seeing me react if she's skilled enough to elicit a reaction.
And does she want to put my needs above hers.
And most of all.. which one of these is that which I'm expecting from her?
Which is where the dynamic can change.
That's testing her,
Questing her.
Take charge of that which I am in charge of usually.
It's a task, requiring effort, knowledge, skill, and most importantly enthusiasm to please.
The mental aspect of this, to perhaps take her from her comfort zone, where she could've instead chosen to use me as her own instrument of pleasure selfishly, by stating before I am restrained "I want you to do, what you think I require from you while I am *** before you.." is a level of control exerted that means she risks getting it wrong... and the subsequent consequences.
That's not submitting!
Like a vending machine that gives the illusion of choice, by offering X and Y drinks, but in fact those two options are the only two available and all others are occluded.. meaning you're actually only selecting from 2 things you've had no say in.
So when I say, I want no control..
It's up to you which of those choices to make..
It's up to you to establish what it is I desire from you..
And then do it.. with relish and abandon
Because anything less wouldn't be a full commitment and would make the dynamic suffer for it... because you need to trust your knowledge of me, for there to be a dynamic at all.
It'll test communication, understanding, and the ability to read cues.
And it'll make it a hell of a lot of fun for both of us.
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