Into BDSM as a feeling and a connection more than specific fetishes/activities- although I've tried most and I'm always interested in new ones.
Best way to get there for me has always been talk, connect, vanilla with some light stuff and with ice not only broken but melted develop the new and unique BDSM relationship into everything it can be -whether for a night or NSA over a few weeks or months or something more if it leads there
Blood, poo, animals, Kids the usual really