I'm looking for a long term relationship where we are comfortable with each other, and someone I'm comfortable to try things with. But I am looking for a sub/switch. No cucks though. Ive grown up with a pretty strict family, and I've delved into BDSM before, but nothing where a relationship is involved, and I'd love that. To be comfortable expressing hidden desires with someone I love, and someone who hopefully loves me back. Also, some friends, I'd love advice as well. I am also looking for someone as geeky as I am, with a siety sense of humour! Though, I am a Big Girl, I've had a hip replacement, and have had trouble with self harm in the past. Just... wanted to get that out there. I am also looking for a little! Also, I do believe that I have a puppy headspace...

Desires and Fantasies
Well, one of my fantasies or kinks... is I like men in women's lingerie. Erm, i... like being gagged. I love shibari, wax... those are all really... 'vanilla' I think compared to some others. I do like biting and leaving marks, though. I mean, I suppose I'd just need to try and open up more.