Are you looking for a D who values mental connection first?
Do you consider your submission a gift?
If so, feel free to introduce yourself

My style of dominance is a
perfect contrast : strict and tender, sadistic and caring, intense and lighthearted. You will obey without any voice raising and I have a strong preference for giving praise. Your pleasure and orgasms are my driving ***.

But don't let my cheerful nature fool you. My tendency towards cruelty lies nearby, just below the surface. Regularity and discipline are hobbyhorses.

In exchange for your devotion, I offer a safe place to surrender to your forbidden desires, your darkest fantasies and the chance to win my perverse attention. Expect to be obsessed, seduced, exposed, taken into a new universe of unexplored pleasure.

I will crawl into your psyche, play on your mind. You will have no choice but to surrender, to finally relinquish control willingly and succumb to the all-consuming urge to please me.