Hello and thank you for reading my profile. Put simply, I am a submissive male seeking a dominant female whether she be single or as part of a couple. I’m a friendly, straight, mature, confident and assertive masculine gentleman who considers himself relatively intelligent and articulate in that I can string a sentence together, hold a reasonable conversation and I also believe those who know me would say I’m good company. I’m no weakling or needy doormat but a strong, confident male who simply enjoys submitting to, serving and pleasing a dominant female!

The only "hurdle" is...I live in Spain but please read on as, for the right person/people, I am more than happy to accommodate here at my detached house here in the south east of this lovely, sunny country. I can provide testimonials to show that I have hosted guests in the past and have acted as the gentleman I purport to be.

I am happy to meet a Dominant who enjoys the pleasure of being served on an ad hoc, occasional basis or one who prefers a more regular and organised relationship.If we were to socialize outside of our D/s roles. to the outside world we look like any vanilla couple but, behind closed doors we fall into our desired roles because I know what you want. I know what you need. I know because I crave your dominance. I become your pet and your toy. Without a word between us I fall to my knees before you to demonstrate my submission to you.

As mentioned earlier I am more than happy to serve a single Dominant or one who is part of a couple although I am straight and, while happy to have your partner present as I serve you, I would not want any direct connection with another male.

I HOPE to hear from you if this appeals to you.

Desires and Fantasies
On the subject of fetishes and kinks, basically what horrifies “Richard” is what my alter ego (submissive Richard) seeks! I had a VERY Victorian childhood and upbringing which made even simple nudity in front of female onlookers hugely embarrassing – so to be ordered to be naked in front of a Mistress and to obey her to strip naked as she inspects me is, in itself, a fetish – a simple one but a strong one, nevertheless. Taking that one significant step further, when I was young, for a female to even SUSPECT that I masturbated would make me want the ground to open up and swallow me! It was THAT embarrassing! So, to be wanked by a female or simply to be WATCHED by a female as I wank myself delves back into my childhood utter embarrassment and humiliation which, as I have said, still mortifies “Richard” but gives “sub Richard” the “something” that gives him his submissive paradise! Masturbation either by me as I’m watched doing it, or by a Mistress in control of me is still both HUGELY embarrassing and humiliating but, being a submissive now and knowing it, I can channel it into something pleasurable! Similarly and in the same vein (if you’ll excuse the pun) CBT fits exactly the same bill, so to speak! I adore offering myself for CBT to a Mistress that enjoys that as the knowledge that she is deriving pleasure from hurting my very manhood, my cock and balls, not only makes my head swim but makes the Mistress extremely attractive to me in a strange way!