Brand new to the lifestyle. Have been experimenting with it and want to find someone or someone’s to help me develop into it. I’m a gentleman first, and everything else comes after.

Desires and Fantasies
I aspire to be a gentleman first to both friends and romantic affairs.

On the more intimate side I tend toward a more dominant personality, but I find that compassion and care are what set apart a Gentleman from a brute.

So I envision a sub who shows respect because it’s been earned, not because it’s expected. Who wishes to please me and makes it a daily aspiration. Through who service, is served. While I through control, am controlled.