I am perhaps looking for the famous needle in the haystack The Dominant I'm looking for is, like me, into spanking and (domestic) discipline as a lifestyle. This is not a game to me but a way of living. We don't have to live together to make it happen, but you should not live too far away from the Hague, the Netherlands, to make it work.

Besides spanking as the main form of discipline, I'm also open to additional punishments like writing lines, corner time, being grounded, early bedtimes or whatever you come up with.

My ideal D/s is setting up rules and limitations together (we both have to agree!) and consequences, of course, as equals, and after that has been agreed to and "signed" for, the real D/s starts and there is no way back unless one of us isn't happy anymore.

Everything that is illegal, ***/stool/urine/needles, etc. I am NOT into extremes, not into Daddy/little girl stuff.