It's always difficult to know what to put in this box as it's hard to give a true vision of the person in a few words on a screen.

I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was around 16. I became a widower a few years ago after a 24 year marriage to my wife/submissive. I've taken time to out to heal but have decided it's time I put myself back out there because I miss the deep bond between a Dominant and a submissive.

I've seen D/s dynamics from both sides of the slash as I started out as a submissive to an amazing Mistress before becoming a Dominant myself many years ago.
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What I'm looking for

A female submissive who would like to grow together and learn about each other in both a D/s dynamic and vanilla in a long term connection.

I’m happy to do one off play sessions. I have a good selection of toys and equipment and do have a spare room so can accommodate and travel if needed.

I can supply references from previous play partners if required.

Vanilla World

I am a biker and enjoy taking my bike out and exploring new places it would be nice to have someone to explore with. I am also a self employed motorcycle mechanic.

I do enjoy a number of things for example going for Meals, going to the cinema, walks, gardening, watching TV and playing on my Xbox to name just a few.
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I do not have , I do not mind if you have , I do however have my fur babies (cats).
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Don't be shy, let's chat and see where the conversation leads us.

My limits include , , , s, Anything Illegal or Permanent Damage, Gold Diggers, Fakes, Liars, Bullshitters, Wannabes.
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I will respect whatever limits you have also.