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Is anyone's life truly only about kink? Let's get real, of course not; the photo with the shades was taken in a mirror at the National Gallery, I have a life outside of kink, a life I'd like to share with someone, along with kink.
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My job is to keep you on the straight and narrow whilst taking care of your emotional, mental and physical needs.
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In shadows deep where silence sings,
I wait with rules and velvet strings,
A guiding hand, both firm and kind,
For one who craves to lose her mind.
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A heart to tame, a soul to trust,
Obedience born not out of lust,
But something deeper, raw, and true,
A sacred bond between Me and you.
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your “yes, Sir” will melt the air,
As I unburden all you bear,
With rules and praise, correction too,
I’ll shape the world that nurtures you.
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So kneel, My dear, if you consent,
Let structure be your firmament,
In care and power, we’ll both be free,
you owned by choice, and loved by Me.
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July 2025
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My kink is control; let's say I like wax play and you don't, then I'll choose one of the other 500 things on the BDSM/Kink/Sex list that you do like; whatever we settle on, the bottom line is, I'll be in control (of it).
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FL: Poltergeist
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Everything depends on the dynamic between us.
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I've been doing this a long time (25+ years) and to write a few words to encapsulate who I am is probably beyond My literary skills but here are a few "buzzwords" and ideas that either describe Me or are important to Me.
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Informed Consent
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Safe, Sane, Consensual (SSC)
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Safety, Security, Safe Words, SSC, RACK, PRICK (Personal Responsibility: in fact I feel more responsibility than a sub as I will have the control in a scene/play).
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Humour
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Being Real
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Daddy Dom - as an approximation I often use these words interchangeably.
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Gentle Dom
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Owner
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Responsible
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Caregiver
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Aftercare
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Nurturing
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Guide
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Affirmation
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Mental Wellbeing
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Rules
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Obedience, Discipline
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When the cuffs are off her wrists,
It’s not the *** that must persist,
It’s arms that hold, a whispered name,
A steady hand to calm the flame.
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For any Dom who breaks her down,
Must lift her gently from the ground,
Not just command, but deeply care,
For true control stays always there.
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August 2025
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P.s. to the countless fakes and scammers on here (yes, it's nearly always 100% obvious you're a fake), also the unverified, if you want to talk send a photo with my username written on your hand/card showing clearly you're the person your profile depicts or a video of the same, otherwise don't waste your time.
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➡️ To be discussed, like everything else.

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