I am a pleaser. Looking to please.
I am primarily and resonantly submissive. Giving pleasure and being used for pleasure as an order is my ideal position. However I am also a pleaser in a vanilla context.
I have an oral fixation so I am especially open to giving oral to whoever wants it (female parts only, but your gender expression doesn’t make a difference to me).
Day to day I am a normal guy who likes martial arts, reading and motorcycling. Being a submissive fully as a lifestyle does not suit me. I am a pleaser generally yes, but a submissive pleaser only in the given moment.