My partner and I (married for almost 4 years now) have slowly fallen into a DDLG lifestyle. Neither of us had defined ourselves like this before, only with the idea that I was submissive in a sense, and he was dominant. It didn't start out as a fulltime thing.
I have always been a self-proclaimed brat, with bouts of intense lethargy and depression (I have finally gotten on meds that truly help). The brat mixed with the sincere need for help with basic tasks led me into my role of LG, and my partner stepped proudly into the DD role.
He loves this lifestyle. He loves doing things for me, fetching me things that I've forgotten, foot rubs and being the big spoon. He carries my purse, reminds me of things, prompts me to do things I love. We finally even had the courage to bring this to the bedroom, nothing gets him off faster then when I'm begging, "Daddy, please cum in me." He's the perfect embodiment of Daddy Dom (though he's not too good on the punishment side).
But me, on the other hand, I don't know, am resisting the call of LG. I have so much guilt from the months of not being able to do basic tasks like folding laundry. I want to repay him back with massages even though he doesn't want a massage. Even though I'm home all day (WFH), he still isn't expecting me to do any of the housework during the work day. We do share household tasks, but there's the niggling feeling that I should be doing more. That he's doing so much, and I'm asking for too much. And I just know that he loves it, and I would love it so much if I could allow myself to be who I am.
So, I guess my reason for typing this all up and sending it to y'all, does anyone else have an issue accepting their role? Knowing that this is who you are but just not accepting it?