Cybersex is fun. simply hoping to chat/communicate with people with like-minded interests. i like learning about people and seeing how others see the world of kink, their likes, dislikes, what they want out of certain situations etc. Ive learned a lot from those who've reached out and/or answered messages but learning is not "the experience" and that is what I crave most.
chemistry and seek real connection.
I value communication and enjoy communicating with real people not facades and seek real connection. Im looking for someone that communicates well. If you have a sparse profile, are nervous or uncomfortable reaching out or talking about these things, arent willing to communicate with someone new, dont respond to messages you're sent (even if just to say not interested), only care about likes on your photos, or are overly hung up on age, you're probably not right for me at this time. Sorry if this seems so negative, I simply hope to weed out people wanting/willing to waste our time. There are too many fakes and scammers on this site…just trying to find the REAL ones.
Now to the good stuff...lol
If we vibe and want more, i value the human experience. I am on a journey seeking knowledge, understanding and experience in this lifestyle.
I have been dominant all my life - EXCEPT in the bedroom. I am still working my way around that but I do have a pretty good idea of what i am looking for.
I'm a decent respectful guy in day-to-day life but during play, Ive found I like submissive women. I like pushing limits (mine and my partners) obviously IF the connection/vibe is right. Dominance in this context is a fairly new thing for me and I simply want to explore it. Consent is of paramount importance to me. Everything is discussed before hand, so there are no surprises. I have no problem starting slow and allowing these things to happen. I want us both to be comfortable and enjoy the experience and what it has to offer both of us.
Physical attraction is important but sexual chemistry ...from a woman that feels sexy...Well, it doesn't get any better! I want to be/play with someone whose comfortable enough to BE all she is. To me that is sexy as hell and is more important to me. Ive found I connect very well with partners with this chemistry and good vibes.
I'm intrigued and wanting to find a female sub that wants to play, wants to explore and be explored. Id definitely like to become well versed in bondage/shibari but need someone to play with and/or practice on. I am not afraid of more (if we connect) but would like it to happen organically.
If you're that rare woman who is willing to communicate, let her guard down, give up control, to explore and be explored, I might just be the guy you've been looking/waiting for.
Admittedly and apparently I am asking for a lot. I have found this process hard on social apps but this seems to be the only way people do it these days, so here I am. lol. Finding active and or serious play partners in Boise has become a true art in and of itself and unfortunately I am not an artist. I know there's good subs out there lol...Lets have some fun and do this!!! I am also not afraid of a road trip if the vibe is right!!!
If submission isn't your jam, thats fine too. I love to chat. I like to learn about others kinks for those willing to share. I’d even like to find a willing partner to attend rope classes. (doesn’t have to be sexual.) just two people learning and art form.
As I am fairly new to the "kink world" in general, I don't know the proper etiquette or ways to go about things. Apologies in advance if I offend anyone.
Interested? Hit me up! I dont bite!! (unless you want me too!!! lol)
I dont have a premium membership and most likely wont
I do try to respond (even if im not interested), Id appreciate the same. Its good Karma.
Thank for taking the time to read my profile.
Best of luck to all
Will discuss with my submissive