I can be a real gentleman with the right woman. Unfortunately, all the women I have met this far were very left leaning.
I enjoy being dominant towards nice, intelligent women, who know what they want. I do not however, view them as somehow less worth. On the contrary, I am fullfilling their wishes just as fullfil mine.
The Sub or a Little has to have a power of their own in the relationship, otherwise they can get victimised and truly abused (unless that's what they want...)