HOME LIFE ME

I'm a passionate cook, love seeing a recipe taking shape and becoming something delicious 😋. Live in the countryside, love the fresh air, prefer winter to summer 🥵🥵. Enjoy long dog walks, preferably by a river but just anywhere really. LOVE to be out driving hence my username, always Weiterlesen… like to see new places and the more postcard pretty, the better ☺️.
I'm honest and like to be open about myself, although if I sense any honesty from me could result in aggression against the integrity of my home life, I CAN and WILL shut myself off from that. I love reminders of Old Britain (antique horse brasses, oak timbers, etc) and my home looks far more middle class than my bank account ever will! I also like writing and I've also written my own songs in the past, because I enjoy playing the keyboard/piano too 🙂. In all, I'm an easy going bloke, always happy to chat ☺️

KINKY ME

I've been on Fetlife since about 2015, having joined because my Number One fetish didn't seem to be well represented elsewhere. I enjoy playing the part of both voyeur and exhibitionist, I also enjoy being naked, but I'm not one of those people who thinks they're God's gift to the world - far from it, I'm the first to acknowledge that my body is average and with that comes all the flaws that being human brings.
Most days, I have a high sexual arousal level (but there are times when I'm just not feeling it) and nothing enhances my excitement more than sharing it with (consenting) women.
My favourite turn on is pee. I love watching women peeing, wetting themselves, I enjoy peeing myself very much as well, I do it at least once a week (more if time and subtlety allow 😜) I'd love to meet a woman who enjoys this kink as much as I do, and potentially get into sharing it with me in person.
Other than that, I like finding new ways of exciting a sexual partner, discovering mutually ways of being that crescendo higher and higher over time.

There's not much better than the afterglow of a good orgasm, the dopamine floods your brain and your whole body just feels.....ahhh 😊😊😊

Earlier on today, I sent a jokey message to someone.

They replied with a good humoured response to my joke, and a sentence saying that I wasn't what they're looking for, and wishing me good luck with my search 🙂

I replied back and thanked them for being so polite, and that was that.

It was a Weiterlesen… clear and obvious rejection, and yet because of the very polite and good humoured way in which it was done, I took absolutely no negative feeling away from the experience whatsoever. In fact, I was pleased to think that there are still people out there who can have the manners and the front to handle the situation in this way.

There are always people who, when rejected, however nicely or politely, will completely go nuts and become abusive/aggressive. That's not acceptable and those kinds of people should rightly be blocked and avoided.

But there are also people who appreciate manners, and appreciate being told directly and politely that they aren't compatible with the addressee. Manners cost nothing at all - this is true whether you are sending OR receiving messages. If someone has messaged you, providing they're polite and good natured in their conduct, even if they're not for you, is it really that difficult to take five seconds to type a reply in kind?

This post isn't directed at any particular person or at any particular group of people. Just something to consider.