Unfortunately my German is not good enough yet.

I'm 187 cms x 94, been called handsome frequently enough, short salt-pepper beard and hazel-green eyes.

I am not specifically looking for a classic, close relationship straight from the start, I'd rather start with a loyal relationship that leaves both partners free to fulfill their life goals and see how it grows.

I am sapiosexual and love cleverness. I sometimes look at life or new computer hacks just to marvel at the clever ways in which they managed it. It doesn't mean that we need to talk all day about high topics, but that with and cleverness in any conversation and activity, no matter how silly, always impresses me in a favourable way.

I think that all sexuality can be born in the eyes but is grown and nurtured in the mind and in the fantasy, through banter, light to deep chatting, with the occasional double entendre to tease and stoke curiosity and desire.


I wouldn't call me a Dom or sub, just a kinkster.


My exes said I am great at eating pussy and I love being sat on and queened, the nickname reflects that, but also a special knack for helping my partners explore and develop their kinks. It's a wonderful journey together! ?


Open and curious about golden showers. That is a new thing for me and I feel that I'd like it a lot.