It's difficult to find help and support for the ***r. Taboo topic that triggers a lot of people's *** but I believe that most ***rs were once victims themselves. That being said, there are various resources for the people suffering from an ***r. Yet there is a lack of resources for those who ***.
Stopping someone from becoming an ***r themselves by helping them process their truama and expressing their needs for safety and connection, coping with insecurities, shame and guilt. My problem with this approach is that someone has already suffered. Someone has already been hurt and ***d. How do we reach the people who *** or want to *** before they act on it. How do we help the people who *** others before they act out on it. If we can somehow get resources and help to the would be perpetrator, to deal with whatever issues they have that make them want to harm themselves or others. There would be less people being acting out, less people learning the cycles of ***, less people suffering from truama, less ***, less guilt and shame, less hate.
Working on something now with my wife. Trying to help those who hurt and *** others, because it's highly likely that they were hurt and ***d themselves.
It's called "the Krash Project." Stay tuned for updates.