Realistic sub male. Interested in the reality, not the fantasy. Sharing vanilla and bdsm activities with a significant other, ltr, partner, eventually...
Masculine, muscular, polite and still believe in chivalry. A bit old fashioned, a bit traditional, but I have always gravitated to strong, outgoing women. Not submissive by default, but am with the partner that inspires it.
I have a special interest in chastity. A woman taught me several years ago about chastity. I have a very high sex drive and she introduced me to chastity to teach me about being selfless instead of selfish. Time, and encouragement, normalized that behavior; seeking pleasure through pleasing. I love sex, I love orgasms, and I also love a woman who decides when, how or if. I have a control fetish, a woman who truly enjoys holding my keys is incredibly exciting. Chastity is the one form of play that can be done 24/7/365. And it doesn't require any extra effort on your part. Just sit back and enjoy and let me do all the work.
I own several stainless steel devices, I have a pa piercing for security. You have 100% control. I am well schooled in long term and short term denial. You do not have to work me up to longer term, I am 100% ready to go if long term is your desire.
Am intelligent, creative, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very monogamous. Not a cuck, not poly, not a sissy, not worthless. If you seek any of those, I would not be a match for you.
Am a moderate masochist, I mainly feed off the energy of the one I am with. I enjoy the dichotomy of being in pain or discomfort, suffering even, while providing you pleasure. Your enthusiasm generally inspires how far I can go. Within reason of course.

Poly, abuse, permanent damage, anything illegal.