For many years I have enjoyed various scenarios from vanilla to BDSM interaction ranging from mild to downright scary (nothing serious).
I’ve tried both sides of the fence and have enjoyed exploring my different kinks. Have known to switch occasionally but, through my experiences I am comfortable in a Dom role and would love to explore with a submissive female.
Good communication is important to me when it comes to a BDSM meet and I don’t mean allowing a sub to top from the bottom but it’s important to me to paint a picture of desires, likes, dislikes, limits, etc.
Been out of the scene for a few years for a number of reasons and in that time have met lots of fantastic people for vanilla fun especially massage. A passion of mine. I have been practicing massage for several years now and have met some great people who equally enjoy the relaxation.
Love meeting new kindred spirits and enjoy chatting about the lifestyle. Its a short life. Make the most of it and, enjoy.
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