Good-natured, fit, older guy with a playful dominant streak. I take care of myself, mind and body. Coaching has taught me discipline, patience, and how to bring out the best in people. Retired and single.

I lean soft Dom rather than heavy-handed control. Chemistry, trust, and mutual curiosity matter far more than labels. I’m drawn to a soft, adventurous sub who enjoys exploration, teasing, and gently pushing boundaries together in a space that feels safe, exciting, and deeply connected. I have good soft hands and enjoy massaging .

Trust is a huge turn-on for me. Knowing your desires, respecting your limits, and creating the kind of dynamic where you can fully let go.

A little exhibitionism or filming? I’m comfortable behind a camera if that’s part of your fantasy.

Outside the kink world: sporty, well-travelled, fun, emotionally grounded, and very much drama-free. Attracted to younger women with curiosity, confidence.

420 friendly.
Tell me your favourite kink... or the one you’ve not admitted to yet 😉

The usual no , no or vomiting, *** or poo.