With regard to kink, I'm a primal sadist, and only a sadist—D/s, M/s and power exchange dynamics of any kind are a huge turn-off for me. No honorifics, no commands, no worship... none of that stuff, absolute hard limit.
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I'm introverted (not shy) and a much more laid-back, quiet, small group chill, grab a coffee kind of person. Interests and hobbies: black metal, motorcycles, collecting unicorn stuff (mythology), philosophy, psychology, flowers/botanical gardens, pipe tobacco, logic puzzles.
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I'm well aware that nobody shares my kinks and an actual kink match is probably never going to happen for me. I'm fine without it, would be a nice bonus, but I'd still like friends or to date and have some kind of intimacy even without kink. Short term, long term, casual, whatever... I'm pretty flexible.
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Please note, I am in an open marriage. We only date individually—neither of us date couples, we do not date as a couple, are not swingers, and are not interested in unicorns. She has absolutely no problems confirming this is legitimate. That said, I'll never treat you like a "side piece" (unless that's what you want), and I absolutely will make time for you.
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D/s, M/s, DD/lg or power exchange dynamics of any kind, age play, couple/group play, dirty talk, cyber, online only, online roleplay, praise kink, hotels, sissies, sissification, men, cucking