With regard to kink, I'm a primal sadist, and only a sadist—D/s, M/s and power exchange dynamics of any kind are a huge turn-off for me. No honorifics, no commands, no worship... none of that stuff, absolute hard limit.
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I'm introverted (not shy), intellectually minded, and a much more laid-back, small group chill, grab a coffee kind of person.
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I'm well aware that nobody shares my kinks and an actual kink match is probably never going to happen for me. I've learned to be fine without it (well, really have had no choice but to be), but I'd still like friends or to date and have some kind of intimacy even without kink. Short term, long term, casual, whatever... I'm pretty flexible.
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D/s, M/s, DD/lg or power exchange dynamics of any kind, brats, age play, couple/group play, dirty talk, cyber, online only, online roleplay, praise kink, hotels, sissies, sissification, men, cucking